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Looking for suggestions on escorts for someone who's new to the experience

Looking for suggestions on escorts for someone who's new to the experience
I checked out Dollhouse website and found Willow's profile really appealing. Do you think she would be a good match for me? I'm also open to recommendations for short, curvy women in their mid to late 20s.
 
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I haven’t seen her myself but she is a bit of a legend at dh with plenty of positive reviews going back years but she is very very hard to book for a while I think she was seen regulars only I think you would have to book well in advance and for 2 hours at least to possibly get a booking let us know how you get on
 
I had no idea she was so tough to book. Would Darcy be a suitable alternative?
 
Hey there, everyone. I enjoyed reading this discussion thread.

I feel like I am in a rather similar situation to the bro J4T with no sexual experience.

I tried a punt with an Asian for the first time in 2020 years ago, and unfortunately, it went really badly. It was a bait and switch; she did not speak any English, and I was not relaxed and could not get up. I left the session early and have not had a punt since because it sort of put me off sex.

I try on Tinder and Hinge dating apps and have had no success with dating or hookups. Offers to take ladies to dinner I meet organically are rejected. I don't know if another go with a SW'er would be good at this time, but the forum discussion is convincing me that it's worth a shot. I kind of lack confidence because I am bald and slightly overweight 25 year old. Although I am quite intellectually talented and have a level of awareness and emotional intelligence, I have no good small talk that resonates.

I may be overthinking, but I feel in a deep dark hole with romantic/intimate relationships while peers my age have such great relationships, with some of them engaged and getting married soon. Being the forever third or fifth wheel in social situations just sucks as well.

I feel awkward about writing and discussing sex as it's awkward, but it seems this community and thread are incredibly positive, so I look forward to hearing what the people on this thread say about my situation, perhaps having people with similar poor first-time experiences and what steps I should take next.

Thank you in advance for your responses

PS The alfa male handle is just a laugh and not an accurate reflection of me 😂.
 
Go to DH and see either Adriana or Luna both sweet girls that will make you feel comfortable . Adriana has a hot body as well
 
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Thanks for sharing this bruv. At 25 you might feel old but you are still young with a lot of time to get new skills and experiences. One of the great things about being a man is you can be ugly as fuck but still pull women as long as you have something going for you in other areas of life - intelligence, humour, money and bantering ability. These are all skills a man can work on and are things that are helpful in life even outside of sexual relationships.

Don’t be put off sex or sex workers by your first experience. Every punter inevitability has a bad punt, especially if they go in uninformed and inexperienced. Sadly yours was your first punt,

To get you back into learning about, enjoying and experiencing sex, I would first recommend going to Debonairs for a sensual massage (nude massage and handjob). This will get you used to being around hot female nudity and not feel overwhelmed when you heave your first full service sex. At Debonairs I would recommend Kimmy, Luna or Nikita if you like Asian girls. All three are very beautiful and friendly girls in their 20s. Valentina at the Apartment would also be good for a first sensual massage experience.

For your first full service I would second Jessie45’s suggestion of Adrianna or Luna at Dollhouse.
 
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I prefer single. But I have got myself in this situation where I have literally fallen in love with an escort. She is different..
Anyways, don't be too stressed about your friends getting married meanwhile you have yet to find one. Everyone lives the life at a different pace.
 
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As said above, a sensual massage could be a good place to start, gain some experience and then see what you like to do.

Like anything, punting can be unpredictable but with forums like this people can also point you in the right direction of good providers or establishments. If you are shy, then some establishments with a public entry area might not work (ie: walking in and see other people waiting can be a downer etc). But some are great, depends on where you a really eg: in AKL Id say just contact Dolls House and just explain the situation, they will recommend a provider. I'm overseas a lot so don't have much recent with the current NZ offerings, but found DH always handy up to 2022-ish. I'm back and shopping around now for various cities, all depends on work and discretion currently.
 
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Thanks for the encouragement I definitely see your logic and think your recommendations are good. I live in the Wai-BOP, so yeah would need to organise a trip to the big smoke when I get a lose end. What in particular does Adrianna, Luna, Kimmy, Luna, Nikita and Valentina do well that make you recommend them for first timers and the unexperienced? I would have no idea what different providers provide in terms of calming nerves and how they go about the act, on the spectrum of putting in effort to being a starfish. Adrianna's photos look beautiful and her profile reads well, so I would be quite keen on an experience with her if i could get it to work.
 
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