Melissa Milano?
Melissa Milano?
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I have not seen her but as Locanto ads go it is good.
There are about 6 or 7 different ads running.
In my experience 300 dollars is fairly standard.
I have seen NZG and Escortify ads less well put together for the same fee.
She seems fairly no nonsense but not overbearing.
Makes it quite clear that it is around school hours.
Another one to potentially add to my list
Decided to see Melissa on impulse. Normally i hit up one of the regs but was just curious what the hype was all about.
Brothers, she's a damn freak in the sack. Personally a little too porny for me but I would definitely return still if I was in that mood.
Very petite, which I'm not sure others have communicated. Skinny too. All smiles and great service overall. She gives it 150%.
Pros: price, looks, thin, youngish say early 30s maybe, attitude, very open minded and definitely not a shy or reserved person, she's cute in a new brighton way.
Cons: location feels very public, you're quite visible entering. I wish she had bigger titities.
Brothers, she's a damn freak in the sack. Personally a little too porny for me but I would definitely return still if I was in that mood.
Very petite, which I'm not sure others have communicated. Skinny too. All smiles and great service overall. She gives it 150%.
Pros: price, looks, thin, youngish say early 30s maybe, attitude, very open minded and definitely not a shy or reserved person, she's cute in a new brighton way.
Cons: location feels very public, you're quite visible entering. I wish she had bigger titities.
On a scale of 1-10 How much of a freak is she?
sbq
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You know the saying, "If it's not meant to be, then maybe it's not meant to be"
Over a period of 2 weeks trying to make a booking with her and still a no show. I've done a screen shot of our last conversation today so you can judge for your own.
What would you guys do? Message to ask what happened and try to pursue another booking? That would make it the 3rd time as the 1st instance she said her child was sick.
What happened?
- She found someone better in bed and kept going into overtime?
- She found someone wanting to pay more $$$ ?
- She didn't like my face pic?
- She needed to attend to her kids?
- She forgot?
These are the problems one deals with when on Locanto. As a plus for going to the local Escort Houses in town, they the usually STICK TO THE BOOKING schedule.
Thinking of throwing in the towel and look onwards to other interest and hobbies.
Over a period of 2 weeks trying to make a booking with her and still a no show. I've done a screen shot of our last conversation today so you can judge for your own.
What would you guys do? Message to ask what happened and try to pursue another booking? That would make it the 3rd time as the 1st instance she said her child was sick.
What happened?
- She found someone better in bed and kept going into overtime?
- She found someone wanting to pay more $$$ ?
- She didn't like my face pic?
- She needed to attend to her kids?
- She forgot?
These are the problems one deals with when on Locanto. As a plus for going to the local Escort Houses in town, they the usually STICK TO THE BOOKING schedule.
Thinking of throwing in the towel and look onwards to other interest and hobbies.
- Aug 9, 2024
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Well ... some advice.
I wouldn't screen share sms conversations as it is just a bit impolite especially as discretion drives this sector.
You've messaged on a weekend I think and her hours are school hours so quite surprised she replied.
Bit on the nose to tell her how to manage her clients, questioning her honesty, and throwing her sick child back at her in a conversation.
Can't help but feel you've made it a bit difficult for yourself. Sounds like she has regular clients and prioritises those over others; a lot of SWers will. Can make it difficult for new clients.
Maybe there is some context I'm missing ...
sbq
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A bit on the nose for all those clients that had failed bookings with her. Am I missing something? Doesn't take much effort to have a simple reply does it?
So what is the etiquette with sex workers doing replies? It was her call to respond over the weekend. Some workers reply at 2am, some reply 2 days later. Bottom line is she made the booking but didn't follow through with it. If it happens twice, then you begin to wonder how reliable she is?
Why the screen shot? Because talk is cheap. Screen shots just makes the conversation more genuine. If it's not acceptable then the moderators can remove it.
sbq
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Judging by your +759 replies and 963
, I would have to say you're far more experienced than me and a long time member in this forum. People's response vary far and wide and already, my posts have attracted attention. Like always, it takes some time for the newb to understand the etiquette. It seems like posting the address where sex workers operate is a no no. Now posting a SMS conversation may also be a no no.Again... talk is cheap and when it's cheap... nothing is real.
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Nah you got it wrong, what Sam said is reasonable and sensible enough, as for the screen shot I dont think is a big deal as there is no address or anything compromising. I might have pushed her a little too much, if you want more certainty in bookings you should be looking at agencies not locanto, shit is pretty lose there.
As for Kenny and his "numbers" dont be impressed by it, as he did here, he shows up in multiple threads only to attack other members, post baseless accusations and drive conversations off-topic. It’s disruptive and harmful to the community
Hi SBQ, sounds very annoying dude, especially last minute ghosting when you were no doubt looking very much forward to your imminent encounter.
My best guess is that she is either busy enough to be hyper fussy about clients; poorly organized; or something came up and she just felt it easier to let you loose than have the courtesy to keep up comms.
Could be not so into ethnic types? Could be she likes a patient and or more charismatic approach?
Would agree with Sam that perhaps your comms could have been better worded.
For sure if she reads this thread you might want to use another burner sim!
Chin up, and back to the research and short list. Thanks for your posts.
My best guess is that she is either busy enough to be hyper fussy about clients; poorly organized; or something came up and she just felt it easier to let you loose than have the courtesy to keep up comms.
Could be not so into ethnic types? Could be she likes a patient and or more charismatic approach?
Would agree with Sam that perhaps your comms could have been better worded.
For sure if she reads this thread you might want to use another burner sim!
Chin up, and back to the research and short list. Thanks for your posts.
harmful lol.
i'll be booking those ex-VR girls in the next 2 weeks. gonna be asking what the go with you is and if you were grossing people out. LOL
sbq
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Thanks for understanding as i'm quite new to this escort thing so there's been a steep learning curve for me. Some say my responses to these sex workers are unfair or my approach is too much on the nose? Well consider how many times Melissa had ghosted others in her bookings? Is this acceptable? I would not think so but some member response here point to things like, 'I contacted her on a weekend' or 'I should NOT be dictating how they roster their booking schedule' as valid excuses.
On the ethnic issue, she already knew my details and what I look like (in the same screenshot SMS message ; but there's no need to post the entire 2 week conversation). If she didn't want to book me, then she should not have made the 12:30 booking the next day.
When I sent the message today asking if we were still on, I noticed in the SMS message box the 3 flashing dots that indicates the other end is typing a message. She was about to reply to me, but instead chose to ghost me as that was the easier choice.
I'm not looking for any sympathy here or an apology. I'm just telling it how it is in that if you want time with Melissa, expect that you can be ghosted. Myself I think going 3rd time lucky to make a booking would come across as being too desperate and hence ''if it's not meant to be... then it's not meant to be".
Again thanks for the encouragement for going Chin Up and carry on.
MelissaMilano
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Hey I'm the escort in question here 
have been directed to this thread by a couple of regular clients who didn't believe that would be me xxx thanks fellas x and I'm really sorry you've come here with this
Yes absolutely I was working today x we had a previous booking I cancelled with you and communicated at earliest notice. and yes we had a booking made for 1pm today that was made last week, that was subsequently cancelled at the weekend and I was clear about why. I had been replying and conversing many dozens of messages about your booking which was rescheduled and many specific needs which I generally am happy to reply to and arrange within my working hours and sometimes other times when I have a moment free. But this boundary was not respected.
I am not available by phone 24/7 by any means, I just work 10-2 Mon-fri., in all my ads it states I take messages for in person bookings, I reminded you of this a couple of times, I do not offer chat services, or take phone calls. I can get over 100 enquiries a day sometimes, I reply when I can and if I am not replying in the day I am highly likely working without time to respond. You continued to pursue multiple forums (Locanto, WhatsApp and text) to message me further questions and concerns about me and the Locanto forum and previous experiences you've had or heard about (nothing to do with me but I still replied to all that) I told you to please keep the messaging to only one thread and tried to kinda end the round and round concern in the conversation that you thought you were guna have a bad experience and I also said that as stated in my ads I don't take any phone calls or chat services and then you continued to message and call (which I don't answer) to my work phone on multiple services to ask 'innocent questions' well outside my work hours. I then said if it happens again I will block you and cancel the booking, which is what happened. I have had to do this to around a dozen people out of thousands of enquiries.
I have acted under the assumption that any boundary crossing behavior should be a serious red flag to a sex worker.
I find the guesstimating or excusing your own lack of respect for my boundaries on why I didn't fulfill your booking about: my sick child, potentially the way you look, or enjoying other clients etc; insulting my professionalism which I pride myself on, but I also definitely don't have any prejudice against anyone for looks, age, race, kinks, size, ECT. other than hygiene is the only thing. I respect people and their boundaries and am very clear about mine. You'll find anyone that has been a client of mine has left happy (as far as I know) because not only is that my goal in my work but I ask to make sure.
I don't have someone to answer the phone 24/7, I'm not publicly posting my address, I'm not sending videos of myself or my id or real name for your peace of mind because you think you'll be scammed. I dont like putting anything online and I don't provide online content, and I'm not sending you my address before the booking, but you can message me and expect a reply within a few days for a clear explanation of my services and my availability. I then offer to make you a booking within my availability for one of the hottest services you'd be absolutely pressed to find in any brothel in the south Island. I give a very friendly outgoing enthusiastic experience.
I'm really sorry you feel like this has "happened to you" but I feel you have felt that $200 for half an hour (which covers far more to prepare than just the time in the session: self maintenance, condoms, regular checks, products, clean sheets, towels, 45 mins shower hair and makeup, ect) but you seem to also assume it included hours upon hours of messaging, next time please be aware that we are people too. I will not be moving forward with any further booking with you and I will not post or share the messages you've sent me as they do hold more of your personal and sensitive information than mine x
Good luck with your future endeavors x
have been directed to this thread by a couple of regular clients who didn't believe that would be me xxx thanks fellas x and I'm really sorry you've come here with this Yes absolutely I was working today x we had a previous booking I cancelled with you and communicated at earliest notice. and yes we had a booking made for 1pm today that was made last week, that was subsequently cancelled at the weekend and I was clear about why. I had been replying and conversing many dozens of messages about your booking which was rescheduled and many specific needs which I generally am happy to reply to and arrange within my working hours and sometimes other times when I have a moment free. But this boundary was not respected.
I am not available by phone 24/7 by any means, I just work 10-2 Mon-fri., in all my ads it states I take messages for in person bookings, I reminded you of this a couple of times, I do not offer chat services, or take phone calls. I can get over 100 enquiries a day sometimes, I reply when I can and if I am not replying in the day I am highly likely working without time to respond. You continued to pursue multiple forums (Locanto, WhatsApp and text) to message me further questions and concerns about me and the Locanto forum and previous experiences you've had or heard about (nothing to do with me but I still replied to all that) I told you to please keep the messaging to only one thread and tried to kinda end the round and round concern in the conversation that you thought you were guna have a bad experience and I also said that as stated in my ads I don't take any phone calls or chat services and then you continued to message and call (which I don't answer) to my work phone on multiple services to ask 'innocent questions' well outside my work hours. I then said if it happens again I will block you and cancel the booking, which is what happened. I have had to do this to around a dozen people out of thousands of enquiries.
I have acted under the assumption that any boundary crossing behavior should be a serious red flag to a sex worker.
I find the guesstimating or excusing your own lack of respect for my boundaries on why I didn't fulfill your booking about: my sick child, potentially the way you look, or enjoying other clients etc; insulting my professionalism which I pride myself on, but I also definitely don't have any prejudice against anyone for looks, age, race, kinks, size, ECT. other than hygiene is the only thing. I respect people and their boundaries and am very clear about mine. You'll find anyone that has been a client of mine has left happy (as far as I know) because not only is that my goal in my work but I ask to make sure.
I don't have someone to answer the phone 24/7, I'm not publicly posting my address, I'm not sending videos of myself or my id or real name for your peace of mind because you think you'll be scammed. I dont like putting anything online and I don't provide online content, and I'm not sending you my address before the booking, but you can message me and expect a reply within a few days for a clear explanation of my services and my availability. I then offer to make you a booking within my availability for one of the hottest services you'd be absolutely pressed to find in any brothel in the south Island. I give a very friendly outgoing enthusiastic experience.
I'm really sorry you feel like this has "happened to you" but I feel you have felt that $200 for half an hour (which covers far more to prepare than just the time in the session: self maintenance, condoms, regular checks, products, clean sheets, towels, 45 mins shower hair and makeup, ect) but you seem to also assume it included hours upon hours of messaging, next time please be aware that we are people too. I will not be moving forward with any further booking with you and I will not post or share the messages you've sent me as they do hold more of your personal and sensitive information than mine x
Good luck with your future endeavors x
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A classy and professional response Melissa. A reminder to us here to consider we might not be getting the whole story.
Its nice to see that there are intelligent providers on Locanto.
I didn't quite gather how you cancelled him in the end,. Did he not read the thread you cancelled on, or he broke your request/warning to stop hassling and u cut him off/blocked/presumed cancellation.
Anyway, I get that your boundaries felt pushed this time, and imagine that it would be hard to provide a service once the 'ick' kicks in.
Comms must be a massive part of the job for SWers, I know that it can take 8 or more back n forths just to execute a deal even in a straightforward situation like buying shit off marketplace.
I would for sure consider booking you muself if in Chch anyway if stars aligned. Chch shortlisted fo sho. Had reservations because you were on Locanto and the mainly negative Locanto reports on here.
Props for showing up here and responding.
MelissaMilano
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Thank you, yes clarifying that I cancelled his appointment by finally answering one of the many phone calls Sunday night. His post is misleading as it doesn't show all the other threads he was contacting me on.
Looking forward to hearing from you x just send me a text when you're ready to book x
sbq
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It was a complete ghosting. I hate to take these things online but i'm glad that Melissa is able to express her situation. I expressed mine here as we all do in the online reviews. To be clear, NO reply was made to me. I can understand how bookings can be cancelled like the 1st instance.
She's a busy girl and I understand that, but if you make say 6 - 8 bookings a day, it's not really hard to follow up on each one if things don't go as planned.
nothing about your account seems credible or consistent. i'm starting to think it's a stooge account designed just to facialitate discussion
