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ChchD said:
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Using my bedside lamp to reply....well you did say "you losers" and hurt my delicate feelings 🤣🤣 now calling me a decent bloke...i am more confused than Winter/Rain in an asian restaurant deciding between rice or noodles or just leaving because the chef might spit in her food. Careful i suffer from yellow fever...two marriages to kiwi women put me off them for life 🤣🤣
 
ChchD said:
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Yep i've had it enough with the barrage of old Chinese aunties doing B&S on Escortify. Their skin is loose and their box is no longer tight. And just to be clear, i've tried many times and experienced it enough to say for 2026, no thank you! If her friend says, "Oh but she's real good service". well... if you're asking $200 / hour, i'm just going to walk away because i'm going to be happy to pay $300 / hour for a for sure real thing experience vs $200 on a "maybe co-worker telling me she's good experience".
 
@ChchD @kennyt because I am a bit newer to the forum I am not sure what the past history is between everyone that you like to troll.

Sometimes your attacks seem quite personal? I'm not aware of peoples backgrounds or current life situation but the one thing we all have in common is that we enjoy punting. This is a hobby that we indulge in for a bit of fun, connection stress relief, whatever you want to call it.

I'm all good for having open conversations about our different opinions. You might have a different view, but it doesn't seem constructive with all the back and forth? It seems like threads get sidetracked from the OP and the thread takes up more time and space than needed?
 
I am one that believes personal background should be left out of this...i am sure a large number of punters have some sort of secret and this forum is not for the airing of dirty laundry or personal attacks. It is to easy to say crap with the use of a keyboard and i have seen the effects it can have on people. If you got a beef wirh someone get off the keyboard and go deal with it...now go punt and use your fingers for happier things 🤣
 
Curb My Enthusiasm said:
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I used to think that too, which made understanding many of the posts here extremely difficult. Eventually I figured out it's actually not true.

For many it is a habit, long formed and long past the time when it was genuinely enjoyable. Now it is just a thing they do.

For many others it is an addiction. They seek out cheaper, chancier encounters for the buzz of the relatively few that pay off in terms of surprise enjoyment.

And for some it is an urge that they are not able to satisfy in the normal courses of their lives, that they resent having to pay for.
 
Harry H said:
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Ha ha. Some good observations there.

The first two are easy to fall into from time to time...

But in terms of understanding where different punters are coming from, perhaps it is useful to consider where they are on a spectrum between, at one end, those who like to feel that they are having mutual fun with a "hot girlfriend" and at the other end those who like to feel that they are dominating, and perhaps even degrading, a "whore".

Those at the opposite ends of that spectrum are going to have a hard time understanding each other.
 
Harry H said:
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Speak for yourself, I enjoy punting, always have. I do it because it's the only way I can get sex as a married man who is in a now sexless marriage.
Punting is waaay less emotionally dangerous than affairs, and on the whole, less financially draining, which leaves me free to enjoy my sex life.
I have met a couple of working girls that I totally dig in a big way but I'm practical and pragmatic and have good boundaries...I also don't overthink things. 😁
 
Harry H said:
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Yes I think you are right, everyone is unique and is into punting for different reasons. I shouldn't have generalised the group when I said we are all into punting.

I should have only spoken from my perspective that I am enjoying the punting experience. All the high and lows that it has to offer, and interacting with guys who seem to have a shared interest.
 
EzyRider said:
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That's certainly valid, but it's a different dimension.

I wasn't kink-shaming. My point is that someone starting out might enjoy dominating and degrading a woman in consensual role play, because it's a taboo and not part of their regular sexual diet. But the same guy, 20 years and 200 girls later might no longer get the same amount of pleasure--or even much pleasure at all--out of what was once novel and exciting.

I'm all for people enjoying themselves. It just makes me sad when I see people posting here about experiences they haven't enjoyed, blaming the woman, when it is blindingly obvious that it is their own attitude which is guaranteeing them mostly unsatisfying times.
 
Harry H said:
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Not personally, I just think your post was negative and miserable and painted punting as something dark...I like to balance that sorta thing with some positivity, because I like to raise the vibration of situations and statements that seem full of negativity.
Guess I'm a bit of a hippy, and certainly closet Buddhist 🤣
 
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Harry H said:
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I'm not sure we disagree too much. I do enjoy back-and-forth dirty talk, etc, when it's clear that both of us know that it is an act.

But, to me, there is big difference between PSE role play, where it's clearly fun between consenting adults, and an attitude that sex workers "deserve to be humiliated". I think it's that latter attitude that could lead to, as you say, non-enjoyment and blaming the woman.
 
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