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Every single provider I've talked to who has worked in a brothel before going independent is glad they went independent, but I wonder if a brothel is the right choice for some girls, even longer term?
Much love from Piper xx
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Every single provider I've talked to who has worked in a brothel before going independent is glad they went independent, but I wonder if a brothel is the right choice for some girls, even longer term?
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Yeah, I definitely, and deliberately, did
BrettC1731
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If they've got no self confidence or belief in themselves then definitely a brothel is the correct place for them to be.
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Agency’s certainly have their place, I believe they’re great places to start. Getting a feel for the industry and figuring out your own boundaries for the job can take a moment, and having a space like an agency helps with that adjustment period.
I do thoroughly enjoy the freedom of choosing my hours and clientele, and working private means you get to actually hold and enforce your own boundaries.
I found a lot of men enjoy the agency, as the girl herself has less agency; the owners always put their money and the punter first. Which can be disheartening, when coming up against notoriously naughty men. It can be soul crushing having boundaries constantly pushed and ignored, and then having to hand money back when you call it.
As for being ran through… the vagina is designed to birth babies. A penis isn’t going to cause any lasting changes
, and being tender down there is just par with the course when you enjoy a lot of sex.
@sbq - the amount of penis I’ve enjoyed would blow your little mind, and every single one comments on my tight, sweet and beautiful pussy x I am lucky to have experience out the wazoo, with all kinds of things. Most men enjoy and appreciate the fact we have experience, and know exactly how to find what pleases them and give those toe curling orgasms x I enjoy your banter hope you’re enjoying the start to 2026
I do thoroughly enjoy the freedom of choosing my hours and clientele, and working private means you get to actually hold and enforce your own boundaries.
I found a lot of men enjoy the agency, as the girl herself has less agency; the owners always put their money and the punter first. Which can be disheartening, when coming up against notoriously naughty men. It can be soul crushing having boundaries constantly pushed and ignored, and then having to hand money back when you call it.
As for being ran through… the vagina is designed to birth babies. A penis isn’t going to cause any lasting changes
, and being tender down there is just par with the course when you enjoy a lot of sex.@sbq - the amount of penis I’ve enjoyed would blow your little mind
, and every single one comments on my tight, sweet and beautiful pussy x I am lucky to have experience out the wazoo, with all kinds of things. Most men enjoy and appreciate the fact we have experience, and know exactly how to find what pleases them and give those toe curling orgasms x I enjoy your banter hope you’re enjoying the start to 2026
Many workers take that many clients so many days a week because they’re just trying to make as much money as they can as quickly as they can / get enough for a house deposit / put themselves through university and then get out.
Misconception that you have absolutely zero control. When I was at VR girls were allowed to refuse Indians, and after I got burnt out I said I would take no more than a certain number of clients per shift and they were ok with that.
Many girls prefer working at a venue due to convenience and safety. You just show up and go to your bookings. Independent workers are dealing with all admin that any small business owner would + if not paying for a bodyguard are at much greater risk of violence. When I went independent and still naive / didn’t have proper security measures in place, I had a couple of really scary experiences that I’d never run into at a venue before. Independent sex work is not for the faint of heart and I understand why more girls don’t do it.
If you’re talking about vaginal laxity rather than just physical exhaustion - it has absolutely nothing to do with “Mileage.” Low estrogen, pelvic floor dysfunction from childbirth or other various reasons, and aging are main causes.
But if you’re talking about being physically/mentally burnt out - it definitely happened to me and I don’t know how some girls manage to sustain it for years.
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It's great to see you working girls giving considered opinions and I wish more would do it as mutual understanding helps both ways.
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I’ve had a little bit of restored faith seeing that a lot of people here seem willing to listen. The onslaught of men we have to deal with, who are incapable of seeing us as multifaceted human beings outside of what we do for work gets very tiring.
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Unfortunately there are alot of mysoginist men out there who have no concern for your feelings of welfare. That they detest women yet frequent prostitutes I find difficult to comprehend.
Natasha who posts here has moved between agencies and independence and has posted that she prefers agencies so she doesn't have to deal with the admin/management side of things.
If a girl has no self confidence or belief in themselves then sex work anywhere would be a terrible place for them to be.
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There was a girl Emily at EG who couldn't stand being in larger crowds but though shy it being one on one she coped very well. In essence a one on one job was the only sort of job she could hold down so it was odd that a job that society looks down on was one the fitted the bill.
Not liking crowds isn't the same thing as having no self-confidence. Crowds (particularly if you are smaller or shorter, which women generally are) can be dangerous places. They're impersonal, and there can be crowd surges that you don't see coming until suddenly you're being crushed or trampled. Not to mention, low lifes taking advantage.
A girl without the confidence to speak up for herself, in a room alone with a man much larger than her and a dodgy attitude. That may be the only job she can hold down, but it's not a recipe for an enjoyable career.
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That's why they have cameras on the door to prevent such people from having access which is a good thing. Though I have heard the EG had to call the cops after some ex-husband got a bit upset at what his former wife was doing. She left which was upsetting as she was a very nice woman and didn't deserve that. She then went independent and he tracked her down there as well posting all her photos on FB for her friends and relatives to see including their children. All in all an out and out creep..
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Which is exactly why people should not be posting addresses or seeking details of girls no longer advertising
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This is so nice to read. The management at EG’s isn’t like that at all, they’ll take your money and give it back to a client. Call you weak and say this business isn’t for you if you can just deal with the abuse and work around it. She works on a shaming system. Big obnoxious memos on the board if she was pissed at a girl. You weren’t allowed to have preferences, boundaries, heck even your kid couldn’t get sick without a barrel of immature pettiness as blowback for being human.
The environment there is toxic and unfortunate, even though I worked with so many wonderful women, managements icky would trickle into everything.
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It appears to me she operates on a system of intimidation and fear.
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She certainly tries. You can generally tell how someone feels about themselves, by how they continually treat others.
So to me, she’s just self hating and miserable. Went from big chch hoe to marrying a client and treating other hoes like trash. Poor thing.
