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What do you mean she told you everything you could not do? Racial profiling is definitely a thing, but it's not uncommon for WGs to start the booking by laying down some ground rules and that doesn't necessarily mean you were being profiled.

I get it a lot because I'm a big cunt covered in tatts, but I try not to take it too personally because if it makes the worker feel more comfortable I know we're both gonna have a better time.
 
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It’s funny I had this conversation with a provider who still sees her race but was quite derogatory towards them as she says they do form quite a large base of punters. I think I might know what you mean though, feel free to DM me the worker and I can let u know if I had that experience with her.
 
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Sounds more than a tad disappointing and crap. The racial side I can’t comment on in this case. I have met a couple of SWers that found it tough to bookings with certain clients due to previous experiences (one wasn’t ethnic based).

Also sometimes just giving it a go can help and lead to good times. I had awkward first booking with a SW I have now seen multiple times (retired now but keep in touch). I got the full list of don’ts plus an uncalled for comment during booking.

Discussed this afterwards booking also later down the track a double booking which made me uncomfortable. As a result bookings just got better also my comms before and during improved.
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Hard to say much. Might help to clear it up if you mentioned at least the place and when. Another punter or someone from place may add something helpful
 
If it's a worker of your own race that's a little different though, I've definitely heard girls complain about certain races and cultures before which are huge generalizations, and can be unfair on an innocent punter like yourself- but if you think about the past experiences she might have had (especially considering the nature of the job and the amount of horrific shit that can happen) I think it becomes a little bit more understandable even if it is still a bit shit to experience yourself.

FWIW I'm not white either so I sympathize with how you're feeling, but I just reckon we can give some of these girls a pass on being a little probbo if it's based in their own bad experiences or work trauma.
 
Nothing wrong with ground rules and they are great for establishing barriers.

That said I never encounter such a transactional start with Jgirls and am instead treated like I'm a young Emperor Hirohito from the moment I walk inside.
 
“am not getting any replies from other workers and I wonder if they ended up giving me a bad review when I did absolutely nothing wrong”

What do you mean by this have other incidents occurred at other agencies?
 
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