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Oxytocin - WG

Oxytocin - WG
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for the ladies here - a woman releases oxytocin during sex, which emotionally bonds her to the man. i wonder if it also happens during purely transactional / paid sex too ? do y'all have to actively remind yourselves to detach emotionally, or does that detachment come naturally because of lack of romance ?

orgasms - how often do they happen ? whats the main driver ? physical sexual prowess, or sexual chemistry and emotional safety etc ?

any other tangentially related thoughts welcome
 
I am interested in this too. I have made a few WGs cum but generally it was girls I really hit it off with.
 
timwalsh34 said:
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Sounds like you're looking to do a research study.
like ivy said in another one of your posts, you should be paying for that time.
I have a side hustle where i get paid to give my opinion on things like sports viewing habits, salads, smoking, online shopping. They usually pay $80-$150 by bank transfer for a basic Q&A that takes up to an hour.


You can't expect girls to work for free.
 
JP2001 said:
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I've seen posts from researchers before and they clearly state what they're researching and provide their contact details etc. This guy I think is just asking these questions for his own personal interest. A couple of his previous posts also suggest that he's a client of SWs which would be unprofessional if he were doing legitimate research.
 
Since I’m retired and idgaf what any of you think I’ll be brutally honest.

Obvs I can only speak for myself but through a long career not one orgasm. Clients just do not turn me on,it’s all faked. And I’m very very good at making it look and feel genuine.

There’s no oxytocin because I’m working. Do you guys release oxytocin at your jobs? Dont think so. Same for me,the bedroom/dungeon was my office and I was simply a professional.

That’s not to say I didn’t enjoy interactions with some clients,there are some lovely guys out there and I didn’t see anybody I disliked.

But orgasms,that’s a big nope.
 
The answer to the questions in both threads is the same: it depends on the provider. We all have our own perspectives, our own way of thinking about what we do in relation to our personalities, and as a result we all have out own ways of working.

People aren't homogenous, and there is as much variety WGs experiences as there are WGs: I'm the opposite of Bliss, because it's harder for me to avoid connecting with someone than it is to check out, and I have the perspective to balance that with proffesional boundaries. Neither of our approaches are unusual (although I appreciate cynics would feel otherwise), and they won't be the only two themes that come up if you were to quiz all of us.

Something that might help you get your head around it is that oxytocin isn't actually a romance neurotransmitter. It does a few things, but its role in social interaction is to help create a sense of trust and empathy that then leads to bonding. As it happens, that's not specific to romantic or sexual attachments, and even those aren't bound by the rules society has arbitrarily imposed on everyone.
 
Bliss said:
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Bliss is right. I think for most working girls they don't even get turned on with clients. Also you are probably not as good at "making it look and feel genuine" as you think you are, the same with the other ladies. Most clients can tell when it is fake, we just don't care so don't say anything. :ROFLMAO:

That said there are some rare nymphomaniacs that do get genuinely turned on though, but its probably more so the the actual act of sex rather than the client lol.
 
timwalsh34 said:
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It might be better to be explicit (no pun intended) about your reasons for asking these questions, but they're interesting ones for sure.

I remember my first adventure with an escort in the mid-1990s. She said she never had an orgasm when working, which makes sense to me now but surprised me back then because she was so young, only 21. I guess she'd been doing the work for a while. Anyway, I saw her several times, and her lack of orgasms didn't stop our encounters from being really erotic and enjoyable. I'm not a fan of faking orgasms anyway.

It seems there is a trend for clients to want the escorts to have an orgasm in our company ... either for male bragging rights or simply because we want them to enjoys our attentions as much as we are enjoying theirs. I don't think I've ever caused an escort I'm with to have an orgasm, but I've had the pleasure a number of times of watching/helping an escort pleasure herself to an orgasm. Hot stuff! :love:
 
Bliss said:
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Sure, I get that. But I guarantee you a significant amount of your clients would have been able to tell, and I would say its much more than you realise. But I'm sure there would have been plenty that couldn't.

To think that most or the overwhelming majority of your clients couldn't tell is about as delusional as the guys who think the majority of sex workers (or even women) they have been with genuinely had orgasms etc. :ROFLMAO:

But my point remains: a lot more clients/men can tell when a client/woman is faking it than ladies realise....
 
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Damn, you know you remind me of a girl I saw 12 times. Possibly the only WG in my life that didn't orgasm with me. I get it the first time is kinda hard, but 12 times that was a record for me. Guess what I also didn't nut during those 12 encounters. I'm one of the few guys that needs a woman to at least get close to cumming before I even nut myself
 
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