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PSA : PLENTY OF FISH IN THE SEA

PSA : PLENTY OF FISH IN THE SEA
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Jamesboi

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Unbridled horsemen of SF, I have recently had another reminder that in this life, there isn't much to be gained getting overly invested in individual girls. When cash changes hands that defines the nature of the relationship forever. This is supposed to be fun. Meet new people. Bang lots of girls. It's not that deep. As the wise man once said - plenty of vulvas in the sea....

 
Nah, find a lovely regular - or two - have fun, fall in love, mourn them when they move on. Repeat.

Talk to them about stuff you can't talk to anyone else about. Let them do the same. Have them change you. Shut out the fuckin world for the 90 mins ypu spend with them every few weeks.

Sure they move on. And outside the room they might not acknowledge you beyond a glance. But in that room ...

So it isn't really about "the vulva" anymore for some of us who have been doing this for decades 🙄

 
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Well ... been doing it for 3 or 4 decades.

Still here. Haven't stalked anyone. Met some lovely lovely people. Learned a lot from them. Passed on a few things myself.

Still married in a dead end relationship *shrugs* Managed to raise a family during all of this.

Not planning to run off with any of them.

Not really a ruined life.
 
Dude you are seriously going to argue that falling in love with hookers is a good idea because your sample size of 1 (the exception that proves the rule) has kept things on (unfilling romantically dead vanilla life) track....
 
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Easy , set you birth date to 1955 . Leave school at 15 get a govt job. After 2 years buy a house in Ponsonby for 200 dollars . Pay it off in 2 years then buy another house for 500 dollars repeat until you have 5 houses . Start selling the houses from 2000 onwards starting at million bucks sell the last one in 2022 . Now you have 10 million bucks invest low risk in bank at 6% PIE account returning 430 K per year after tax . Spend half on punting and squander the rest . Fool proof method , works everytime 😎
 
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Well ... the 3 or 4 decades is on and off at various points. It's a hobby I suppose.

At 21, on an apprentices wage it was short sessions and not that often. At 59 having climbed the career ladder it is every 3-4 weeks esp. in the last 2 years. Longer sessions with people I like and get on with.

Do this long enough and the once and done becomes a bit hollow for me. But that is just me.
 
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Back in the day when cash was more in use small withdrawals built up over time.

Now? An Airpoints credit card with a business address, which provided for an associated non-interest bearing current account with a different bank (no RWT obligations) into which a small but regular allowance is paid from the payroll.
 
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