Thanks for your support mate.
Sorry, maybe I have given the wrong impression. I am not blaming my skin color but I clearly see the MAIN issues with my situation as....AGE and FOREIGNER.
I have been to countless dating apps, from Tinder, OKCupid, Hinge, Boo, Bumble, etc.. If I put my real age there with a current photo, I may be lucky to get 1 person more or less interested every 2 months. I have tried posting a younger picture of myself and listing my age as 45, and I've received a couple of interested women per week.
As I said, kiwi women seem to prefer men who follow the kiwi culture.
Maoris and Polynesians prefer people from their own culture. They are not much interested in dealing with someone from a foreign country.
I have been out with women from many nationalities, Russian, Dutch, English, Scottish, French, American, white Zimbabwean, white South Africans, etc.. (I am not into Asians, Indians, Middle East / Arabic, Africans). While some of them are more open, others are not that keen on dating a foreign older man.
Regarding age, I have met a few 20'something....all interested in money. A few 35 / 38, a bit lost in life....and several 40+ , 50+ and one of them was 1 year older than me. Nothing. They felt very uncomfortable when I said I was still renting a house.
No worries. I know that this is life, and I am not expecting an easy ride.