Red Flags

Red Flags
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What are red flags for other punters, in ads and in communication before the booking? Mine are
  • Only one photo
  • Toilet selfies
  • Junk on the floor in the background of photos
  • Heavy filters on photos
  • Photos at wrong orientation (can't even be bothered to rotate before uploading)
  • ALL CAPS
  • Frequent price changes
  • Frequent name changes
  • Ads that say "last day!" for days at a time
  • Texting back more than once to ask if I want a booking
  • Calling without notice in response to a text inquiry
 
  • Filters
  • Toilet/bathroom selfies
  • "ASK" in the age field
  • Price changes
  • Rudeness - especially if you inquire about something and they rudely state "read the text" or "read the profile" which instantly makes me refuse to book them
  • Texting back the day or longer after I first texted them
  • Calling me at any time, I prefer texting but if they want to call they should at least ask first. I once had some crazy escort try and call me like 3 times after I stopped replying to their texts lol. I quickly blocked their number
 
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1. WhatsApp only
2. Overseas number
3. Ask for age
4. The hot asf profile that goes for $150 gfe per hour
5. Contact me on O.F
6. Heavy filters
7. When they say kiwi born and raised but there add is broken English🤦
8. Same pictures with different name and number on multi profiles especially when they are all available now but based in different parts of the country🕵️‍♂️
9. When you text them with an enquiry and they reply with an answer totally of topic.
ME : "what other extras do you have?"
THEM : "yes I'm available"
🤷‍♂️
10. My favorite..... I only ask a small deposit because of time wasters
 
Aww no this is my favorite red flag.

When she's brand new to the industry and it's been her 1st day as a WG for the past 6 months 😆 🤣 😂
 
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Ouch that us probably one of the biggest red flags. Sometimes its a scam sometimes the girl is genuine. But usually they only ask for it because they fuck around some many clients they walk.

I fell for it with one girl in Christchurch. Deposit was only like $50. Set a time then 5 mins before she delayed it. Then kept delaying it until like 2 hours after the original booking time. You feel like you can't walk because of the deposit. Probably should have just wrote off the $50 and walked anyway
 
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I've been caught by this once. I made deposit but much, then went to hotel/apartment and then they started making up nonsense trying to get another deposit. I was pacing back and forth past the address like I was the sex worker on the street 😆 after 30 min of bullshit msgs I said to my self "ok ok these mfs got me this time"

I know there are some legit ones out there but I'll never do that again.
 
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Hrmm this is an interesting take on it, it would be great if you could intern as an admin some day and run the phone, I think you would then maybe have a bit more of an understanding of the number of no shows, endless questioning, ghosting etc, “hi”, etc etc that happens before you actually secure a booking. Christchurch is particularly bad for no shows. Lots of beauty, therapeutic massage, etc require $50 deposits to secure the booking, why is this a red flag?

Also, how else would you suggest is a more acceptable way to run this? Eg) client books 2hrs… you turn away four more jobs for that time frame and they don’t show up.

When I tour I actually don’t seem to be questioned if I ask for a deposit, it’s due 24hrs before the appointment no sooner no later and they were actually so eager to make the deposit.

Also not going to lie but I tick a few of those boxes.
- if you text outside of my work hours I may not always reply, I also dont carry my phone on me 24/7 and if it’s been longer than 2hrs I generally won’t text back. Although I took your feedback on board about it’s the clients issue re:phone security and have been a bit more flexible on this.
 
I guess I'd be more inclined to do a deposit if it was an agency or something. But to be honest I only do bookings in cash anyway and I will just rule out seeing a sex worker if they ask for a deposit. It's actually very rare for them to ask for one in Auckland, so if they do its likely a scam. Also you'd probably miss out on a lot of clients seeking discretion if you require an electronic payment before hand. They wouldn't want their wives seeing a suspicious transaction on their bank statement 🤣

I did notice the few times I have frequented Christchurch that sex workers down there do some of those things. On a Saturday evening I texted about 5 sex workers and got no replies. Up here a lot of them would be working at that time as it is peak hour. And I noticed a couple texted me the next day and a third a few days later. The SW in Auckland don't usually do that unless they are desperate for business. Again its a discretion thing, you don't want to text a would-be client when he's cuddling his wife/girlfriend on the couch...

[WIFE]: Who's that texting dear?

[TEXT MESSAGE FROM CHARDONNAY]: Hi hun, sorry I didn't reply yesterday I was unavailable. I'm available now my rate is $300 an hour. And yes I do anal for an extra $150 x x x

That's a good point about the time wasters though. I guess it goes with the territory. The good agencies and managers are relatively good at balancing it. Some of them will check in with you prior to the booking asking if you are still available to arrive for the booking etc. Plus if you have visited them before they will recognize your number and can tell you are not a time waster.
 
Chardonnay 😅

I have worked a couple Saturdays and it wasn’t busy at all, the overheads cost more for me on weekends so I have avoided working them unless I have a reasonable pre-booking.

That’s a good one actually, I have never had that offered up instead of a deposit.
 
That's a good point if someone is going to put up a B&S ad chances are they are not going to use a single crappy toilet selfie for it LOL. You might even find a hidden gem, a girl new to the industry. Or a new girl only working temporarily to make some quick cash.
 
In relation to the Asian WGs.
A banner saying :-
Only here for shot time - hurry up.
Translation is you won't be looked after too well because she won't care about repeats.
 
Photos that are AI or overly photoshopped

A selection of photos of supposedly one girl but are clearly just random pics of multiple different women.

Ladies that quote a higher price than is in the ad when texting, or worse in the bedroom.

Anyone working out of motel south of like Greenlane.
 
Have photos that look like a professional airbrushed shoot for a Japanese or Hong Kong model but are charging cheap prices and are working out of shitty flat or apartment.
 
When the photo has been obviously altered.
When the photo / profile is so ludicrously good and the price is unbelievably cheap.
Independent South Americans ( most) and now the Eastern European profiles
Definitely “ more active on OF “ contact preferred.
 
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