Red Flags

Red Flags
If they ghost you at the start time of the booking and text you 5-10min later saying that they are almost ready.

I'm sure it's legitimate sometimes but I have found this to be a very reliable red flag for bad service.

Some others:
  • Aggresively worded or very lengthy descriptions
  • Endless list of different service packages
  • Weird pricing structures
  • Frequent price or name changes
  • Casual response to your enquiry ("hi baby")
  • Bad gut feeling within 5-10 seconds of meeting them
  • Advertised as petite but waist is hidden or obstructed in the photos
  • Advertised bust is much larger than what you can see in the photos
  • Always on either their first or last day
  • Location doesn't match the high end pricing
  • Advertised as independent but phone number search brings up other profiles using the same number
  • Reverse image search brings up instagram girls or escorts in other countries
 
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LaraX said:
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I suppose that's fair. I tend to not pursue any further when scant details on what's offered is given, because I've had some SWs get very offended when I've enquired about whether they offer this or that. And no, nothing illegal. I've mentioned in another thread getting told off by one when I asked if she offered kissing.

Hard hat and tool belt would pair well with some lingerie, as long as they're colour coordinated.
 
Ferris said:
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Always need to be colour co-ordinated lol.

Yes I see where you’re coming from after being told off for a kissing question, it would make you second guess things. What I get from ppls posts is there is a fine line between too much information and not enough in ads. I think I have extras in my ad but they are not limited too in saying that, like I’m open minded without crossing the illegal service part, which I wonder if other girls could be open to extras not listed.
 
LaraX said:
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Definitely. But I'd say it was a broad line.

Some customers like to see all of their options up front, while others will be put off by what they consider to be too much waffle. So whatever you put in your ad will attract some people but, inescapably, it will also put some people off. That's not actually a bad thing, it gives you the opportunity to tailor your ad to attract the type of customers that you want to see.

An example of that is "ASK" in the age fields of ads for many Asian ladies. They (or the people who create the ads for them) are deliberately waving a red flag at punters who are specifically looking for young/young looking girls. It's not a foolish error or an attempt to deceive, it's intelligent marketing.
 
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Adding to the growing list of flags, if they won't provide the address or full address when confirming a booking with them they never hear from me again, years ago I only ever once let myself fall into the trap of txt for the address when your closer never to get a reply back from them again
 
I can understand first giving just the street name or a general area. Though ultimately someone can still just say "im here, whats the address" and not turn up. If some weirdo wants your address, they are going to get it.

Some however won't answer the question as to where they are at all. "When you coming babe?" Well i cant answer that if i dont know where the fuck you are. There are things I as the customer need to consider, when i decide if i want to book

e.g. Mt. Albert is a big place and during peak traffic there can be a big difference in time to get to different parts.

If its in a super shitty area then i probably dont want to make a booking. Gang houses nearby (Panama rd in Mt Wellington) etc

If it's on a street where i know people

If its a notorious bait and switch merchant who has changed their ad. There was one day i was trying to make a booking and like 4 different ads it was the same address.
 
As you guys point out there is not really anyway to not give out the address. I dont mind if they withold the street number until the last minute but I've had some that won't even give you the suburb let alone the street name. It's frustrating as fuck. I can't guarantee I will even make my booking time without knowing where to go.

I hate to admit it but I have no showed a few times when I know I can't make the appointment without being late (especially if its going to be more than 5 mins). And its usually always because they don't tell me where to go until the last minute and I get stuck in traffic or something.

Best practice would be to give the client at least the street name after confirming the booking or alternatively somewhere else closeby. Instead of just ghosting them until 10 mins before the actual booking time and expecting them to actually arrive on time. I'm not Superman, nor do I possess a portable teleporter device.
 
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JohnnyPunter said:
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I think it is one of those things like qwerty keyboards. Maybe it made sense at one time but although it doesn't make sense now, it's still pretty much standard practice. For that reason, I don't think it's a red flag. Sure, it's abused, but most of the time It's just girls doing what is "normal".
 
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