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You have some valid points. All I am saying is that they should at least be courteous and give a reason, any reason in fact, then I will know for certain I'm blocked even if it is not justified. Trust me, I will not go to any place where I am not welcomed, no matter how beautiful their escorts are. I have some shred of self esteem and dignity.
Here's a question though: why has SL blocked me and not you? Food for thought, hey.
 
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Fair enough. But at least say what the problem is. Even if SL said to me that because I'm Indian, they don't want me as their customer, they will never see my face or hear from me ever again.
For the record, I am totally against any form of Racism. But I will not go to where I am not welcomed.
 
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This does not make any sense at all. I was always polite in my texting. It's more likely to be one is blocked and one is not, for undisclosed reasons
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I'm not attacking anyone. I'm just trying to get to the bottom of why I am blocked or so it seems. And, I was always courteous and respectful in my texts to Secret Liaisons, so your point unfortunately falls away.
 
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No.
It isn't food for thought.
SL hasn't blocked me for a very simple reason, I have never been there, will never go there, because I'm a bit too old to want to spend time with a girl half my age as we just don't click. Since the workers there tend to skew younger, and I haven't been at university for a long time now, why would I go there?
I enjoy a good chat as much as anything else, and a couple of early experiences in my current punting period with girls around the age of 20 informed that people that age are just a bit too different in life experience, so conversation is too strained, too forced (this is the same reason that I have ever only chosen to use the services of people that speak the same language/s that I do).
Instead I found a more suitable situation (an option I have tried to advocate you toward) ... SL haven't blocked me, because they have no idea who I am and never will, you however are not in that demographic.

They aren't responding to you.
They aren't obligated to tell you why.
It is clearly their decision, and the reasoning is ultimately unimportant.
End of, period.

But since you're determined to continue going down the path, have at it Hoss, good luck to you.
 
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Let's just say what's respectful to you may be rude to others.

I.e.
"That's the wrong way of doing things, do this instead"

"Here's a better way of doing things"

"Perhaps try doing things this way and see if it turns out better?"


3 messages, same thing, but very different energy.

One denies another's will

Another impose it's own

The 3rd encourage an alternative while leaving the ball in the hands of those making decisions.

Some people may see all 3 as fine, some may see 2 of them as rude... But I bet you there are those out there who have problems with all 3.

Let this be food for thought for you in your future correspondence
 
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Change of management

Change of policy

Could be anything

I.e. 15 years ago, you can make threats toward work and income over the phone and they won't hang up on you, after Ashburton shooting, not only will they hang up, they'll send police after you.

Things can change.
 
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I have no idea cos im not them and haven't seen the messages

A few chapters ago in this novel though, someone told you and the other guy how obsessive this is becoming and to either get a new SIM and message from there or just move on.

The fact you haven't and are still debating it shows how obsessive you are on it and kinda gives an indication in itself as to why you might have gotten blocked.

The fact you were a customer for 3 years means nothing if the person on other end of txt is new or if rhe last girl you saw made a complaint (not neccasarily to you)

Move on
 
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