While I refuse to engage directly with the individual that said it, I can't not point out in a general sense that when we are assaulted (because that's what it is when you bite, or intentionally, non-consensually hurt us in any way), there is no 'other side to the story' that condones, explains or excuses this behaviour. And this exact attitude and others like it, are a large part of what makes it so hard for us to report SA's to the authorities. It's in line with 'But what was she wearing though' when women are d.
What's he gonna say... 'I was hungry?', 'my mouth accidentally connected with her skin and I accidentally clamped down with my teeth even though she asked me not to? 'I have rabbies?'...
Blackmail is also a crime, so is sexual coercion and again there is absolutely nothing he could say in 'his part of the story' that could take any of the hurt or very valid fear away from what Malibu experienced with this POS!