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Review That Awkward Moment You See a Sex Worker You’ve Been With

Review That Awkward Moment You See a Sex Worker You’ve Been With
About 10 years ago Saw a girl at a private residence one weekend, went into work the following Monday and was told i had a job to do at that exact same address, was a bit awkward, we sort of smirked when we greeted each other at the door. I was working with my old man at the time which made it quite funny too 😂
 
I know I come across as the resident weirdo on this forum – but what the fuck’s wrong with you people? Twenty-two years after sex work became normalised, on a forum dedicated to discussing said work, so presumably full of those most accepting of this change – everyone’s so uptight! So, clients are still full of guilt and shame? Are the providers unable to hide their contempt for their simp clients when they are not being paid? What a way to live!

Imagine any other (non sex related) forum having this sort of discussion: “Oh my god, I came face to face with my hairdresser today in the supermarket… I could have died!” “You think that’s bad, I saw my mechanic yesterday in the street, but I ducked into a doorway, so I think I got away with it!” “Well, we can both agree, at least we didn’t see in public one of our loser, pathetic clients/customers/clientele that provide us with our livings today!”
 
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daok said:
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Difference is you are less likely to be stalked, threatened, killed or raped. You wouldn't begin to understand how unsafe women feel on regular basis. Meeting clients in public takes away all the safety nets we have to feel safe and may give away personal information about us. We don't know you, how weird you may be, if you are dangerous. It's a scary world out there. A man threatened to kill me cause I didn't message him when he gave me his phone number. I was too scared to walk alone to my car for months. So please be respectful, keep your distance, give a nod of acknowledgement and walk away. "Money" is the last thing on our mind when we are approached in public.
 
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I didn’t intend to downplay your concerns. Are you saying you view your clients as potentially more threatening than men who are strangers and don’t engage with sex workers? Do you think women in other professions, like nurses or waitresses, might face similar challenges with unstable men?
 
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I think the point shes trying to illustrate is that u just never know how a person can be. Many people in this day and age walk through life with a false persona and its extremly hard to judge someones charecter based on 1 to a few brief intimate encounters. Sure i get your point many of us in here are geniunely good guys, but not everyone is a good guy and there sure are a lot of pretenders in this world. At the end of the day it comes down to probablity.

If SW's meet with many clients in public the chances of something going wrong, judging a persons charcter wrong, a stalker situation emerging, personal information getting leaked increases.
 
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Sadly there are a certain percentage of men who are possessive stalker types. They probably would stalk women in other professions too. However, sex workers are at potentially greater risk because:

(a) Sex work still has a naughty taboo around it. Some guys think if sex workers put out at work, they will put out for them elsewhere. Likewise the taboo nature of the job means doxxing/black mail of sex workers can have more severe consequences, given their family etc probably don’t know what they do.

(b) Men often feel a special connection to a woman after they have been sexually intimate with her. I assume it is nature trying to trick us into sticking around to care for children. When a normal inoffensive guy like me sees a sex worker I just roll with the doe eyed feeling at the end of my booking by booking her again or thinking about her while I have sex with my wife (or maybe both).

More unhinged guys start feeling in love, possessive or in the mood for a stalk.

Combined I think these factors raise the chance of sex worker getting stalked.
 
Daok I am interested in hearing more about your hippy upbringing. You weren’t a Centrepoint kid were you?
 
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