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Review That Awkward Moment You See a Sex Worker You’ve Been With

kiwi123 said:
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I have been approached many times: in my DMs on AF (back in the day), on X (if I see them amongst my 300k followers, lol); by text, phone or WhatsApp - in person at the casino, and in other places I frequent. My date would instantly recognise what’s going on as that’s probably how we hooked up in the first place; (She might even know her). So, I’m “approached” all the fucking time and I’m fine with that, because I don’t cheat or do shame… and let’s face it, I encourage it to some extent by accepting phone numbers in punts.

I've never had a boss (why would you?), my parents were swingers and essentially did sex work – we all did. Apart from manufacturing and selling hallucinogenic substances, the community’s main source of income was entertaining visitors who paid to engage in our “free love” lifestyle. As a result, I don’t remember a time when I wasn’t sexualised, and to this day I shudder at the thought of big hairy 70’s unwashed minges (and cocks).

When the more attractive girls reached a certain age (I hope), they would be encouraged to work in massage parlours; my job as a 17-year-old was to ferry them to and from work. I was eventually kicked out and made homeless when I tried to convince the girls to keep some money for themselves. Later, as the community disbanded, many of the girls continued their lives in sex work, generally to their cost. I house and support many of them now as a result.

Apart from the ravages of drug abuse, most of the girls (lol they’re in their sixties now) have suffered violence from pimps, boyfriends, boyfriend-pimps, family members, police – but I don’t recall any mention of violence from their generally white, middle-class married clients who would not want to draw attention to themselves.

Anyway, enough of this shit. As usual, I regret starting it. I fully agree: if the girls want to maintain their privacy and feel unsafe being approached in public, they’re fully entitled to have their wishes respected. I certainly never have… I just laid out the breadcrumbs.
 
kiwi123 said:
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It wouldn't bother me if that happened.
I know lots of people and have worked in lots of places, so it would be easy for me to say "oh that was such and such, that used to go to the same professional conferences that I did" or something similar, if asked by anyone I happened to be with.
But I also fully don't expect that to ever happen, as why would she?
She's not my bestest bud.

To use the 'hairdresser' analogy that someone else did, is your barber likely to come up to you in the street and start having a chin wag?
No is the probable answer.
I run into my barber in public all the time, and we exchange a 'hello nod' and continue about our day.

These women are just trying to make a living, so what is in it for them to randomly approach you on the street.
I personally think that is more a salacious male fantasy that they would, than it being a likely reality.
 
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daok said:
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Cool bro. Glad you realise now that the girls deserve to have their privacy respected and dont need stalkers etc.

99% of us haven't had lifestyle you've had though and prefer our privacy respected too. So, def goes both ways, key though is the SW privacy
 
Decided to try out a different girl at Deb’s a few years ago. It was someone I have previously worked with however we hardly knew each other and hardly had any interactions at work but just knew each other’s faces kinda thing. We just pretend to not know each other lol it was kinda hot
 
There was a wonderful woman I used to see on a regular basis a few years ago, great company and great sex as we had a definite chemistry,. She always maintained that she was in the job to clear some debts, for her child and that once she was settled she would stop working. Sure enough one day her mobile just stopped working and her ad disappeared. Anyhow one day a year or so later I was in Countdown and saw her, she looked stunning and as we were both in the same aisle and heading towards each other it was inevitable we would meet. We both made eye contact, I know I had a stupid grin on my face and she gave me a small smile back, we both said hi and moved on.. ..... I always regretted not starting up a chat with her that day and seeing if it might have led somewhere but decided to respect her privacy
 
All the time to be honest 😩 saw 3 clients at different bars in Ponsonby on the same night recently.

2 weird stalker incidents where a client saw me in public and followed me around the mall and from a cafe to my car.

Clients having dinner with their wives and/or kids in the same restaurant 😆 this is the awkward one, I feel bad for them because umm how confronting hahaha

I‘m a friendly girl so I’ll always give a knowing smile but please don’t approach me. If you’re a regular then we will say hi or have a chat though because you know me like that. But only if I’m alone 💕
 
I am extremely recognisable as Ivy Brooke even when I'm not in uniform, AKA I have no make up on and I'm dressed like a teenage boy. I'm face out in my photos, I'm quite heavily tattooed and I have bright copper hair, so I've just had to accept people spot me often.

Thankfully nobody has ever approached me, but I catch people doing a double take often enough haha. I almost never remember to bring my glasses to the supermarket, I just have my prescription driving ones with me, so if anybody has tried to catch my eye or smile at me in a supermarket then it was a very one sided event because I can't see anyone's face without my specs unless they're within 5 feet of me lmao.

I did however have to stop going to my old gym for this kinda reason. It was back when I was working on the desk at a club, apparently half the patrons of that club also went to city fitness 🫠 They'd recognize me from the desk and would just STARE at me. And once again, I'm just seeing that someone is staring at me but I can't make out any details of their face because no glasses. The gym is supposed to be a safe space to look ugly and sweaty and I just got so sick of feeling watched whilst I was trying to work out that I just cancelled my membership there. I think. Actually, I may still be giving them $15 a week, I should really follow that up. Anyway, I brought friends along with me on various occasions and they also noticed it, so it wasn't just me having main character syndrome at the gym lmao.

Even if I wasn't an escort/brothel receptionist, last time I checked it's pretty rude to blatantly stare at people in public 🙄
 
Yup. Ran into one I've booked a few times in the past on Lambton Quay yesterday. Another girl also used to have her day job across the street from my office so I ran into her a few times when I'm out to lunch, on the way home, etc. Her day job closed down and she probably works elsewhere now.
 
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