The uncomfortable truth about the Epstein saga
Regarding the latest news in the Jeffrey Epstein saga, it's becoming farcical how many people (almost all men) knew him and stayed in touch with him after he was convicted, and of course they are now having to either deny, downplay or justify their decisions while condemning the man himself. The recurring theme is hardly new of course - old men discussing or engaging in sex with young women or girls has been exposed many times in the media in the past. In fact, it has become a cliche: Old men = predators, young women/girls = victims.
Here's what I've been thinking. The victims in this sordid saga would have less likely been victims if they were older women (ie. in their 30s, 40s or even 50s). Adults with plenty of life experience would have been better informed about what they were getting involved in, if they had been recruited by Epstein and his associates. They might well have consented to having sex (albeit getting paid to have sex) with men closer to their ages. But of course pretty much all the victims were teenagers and the vast majority of them were underage girls, and all these celebrities who queried Epstein about meeting them would have known that. It also raises an uncomfortable truth: If you guys reading this were rich and powerful and ever met Epstein, not knowing what he really got up to, and he offered girls for hire (regardless of whether you knew their age), would you have accepted the offer? Being a punter myself, I might have fallen into his trap if I was in that position of wealth and status. The reality is that us males are biologically driven to chase women of that prime age of 18-25 and it doesn't change as we get older (Leonardo di Caprio being a case in point).
I'm in my 40s and I want to stop punting, but the truth is it's very hard to stop checking out profiles of young attractive women on NZ Girls. If I go to a dating website, more than 90% of the women around my age just don't give me the motivation to want to initiate a conversation (assuming they would even engage, knowing the strike rate on those sites) and I have seen a lot of profiles of women in their 20s and early 30s whose cut-off age is 40. And while 'cougars' do indeed exist, I would safely assume that they are the exception to the rule that women of all demographics generally prefer men who are slightly older than them, hence why you almost never hear of 40-something women chasing teenage boys for sex.
Why does nature not make us guys feel less attracted to young women and more attracted to older women as we age? Can anything be done about it?
Here's what I've been thinking. The victims in this sordid saga would have less likely been victims if they were older women (ie. in their 30s, 40s or even 50s). Adults with plenty of life experience would have been better informed about what they were getting involved in, if they had been recruited by Epstein and his associates. They might well have consented to having sex (albeit getting paid to have sex) with men closer to their ages. But of course pretty much all the victims were teenagers and the vast majority of them were underage girls, and all these celebrities who queried Epstein about meeting them would have known that. It also raises an uncomfortable truth: If you guys reading this were rich and powerful and ever met Epstein, not knowing what he really got up to, and he offered girls for hire (regardless of whether you knew their age), would you have accepted the offer? Being a punter myself, I might have fallen into his trap if I was in that position of wealth and status. The reality is that us males are biologically driven to chase women of that prime age of 18-25 and it doesn't change as we get older (Leonardo di Caprio being a case in point).
I'm in my 40s and I want to stop punting, but the truth is it's very hard to stop checking out profiles of young attractive women on NZ Girls. If I go to a dating website, more than 90% of the women around my age just don't give me the motivation to want to initiate a conversation (assuming they would even engage, knowing the strike rate on those sites) and I have seen a lot of profiles of women in their 20s and early 30s whose cut-off age is 40. And while 'cougars' do indeed exist, I would safely assume that they are the exception to the rule that women of all demographics generally prefer men who are slightly older than them, hence why you almost never hear of 40-something women chasing teenage boys for sex.
Why does nature not make us guys feel less attracted to young women and more attracted to older women as we age? Can anything be done about it?