Thoughts on this situation?
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Thoughts on this situation?
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I dont get why you would still be thinking about this when it happened years ago.
tl;dr, you met an escort that was new to the game and was a bit flakey.
tl;dr, you met an escort that was new to the game and was a bit flakey.
Bobpantsspongesquare
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Yeah mate it’s on my mind 24/7, not a shred of healthy sleep since
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I dont know I could only guess. Maybe she didn't like being an escort. She might have made that pitch so you would leave. Might shock you here but escorts don't always tell the truth..
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That’s life. Get over it. You need to move on. It’s probably affecting you with other punts.
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This is the reality of it, for every girl that sticks around, there are 100 that dip their toes in only to have horrific experiences with bad johns and quit, some of my close friends who have been in the industry and had nasty clients have said that it changed the way they saw all men for a very long time.
Sorry that it's affected you so much but the best thing you can do is move on, I'm not taking the piss when I say it might help to speak to a therapist about it either, there's no shame in it!
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Sometimes you get new girls that like the sound of being an escort or rather are lured by the potential earnings. Then they do a few bookings or work a couple of weeks and decide it's not for them. And it's not necessarily because they had a bad customer or whatever. Every working girl has at least one story about a bad client, just as every punter has a story about a bad working girl.
It takes a lot of emotional and mental fortitude to be an escort and have sex with random strangers that you are rarely ever attracted to. Then of course you have the stigma and complications with dating and family etc. Can't blame some girls deciding it's not for them. It's the exact same thing with porn. For every successful porn star there is probably 100 girls that just did one or two porn shoots then got out.
It takes a lot of emotional and mental fortitude to be an escort and have sex with random strangers that you are rarely ever attracted to. Then of course you have the stigma and complications with dating and family etc. Can't blame some girls deciding it's not for them. It's the exact same thing with porn. For every successful porn star there is probably 100 girls that just did one or two porn shoots then got out.
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What would be an eye opener is a thread on those horrific experiences. What do they actually do. I know cleanliness is an issue.
Thai lady cringed when telling me she won't see Indians. Chinese lady told me she was bitten on the face by an Indian. I saw the wound just below her bottom lip. Another Chinese lady said she feels like punching some punters. I said why ? She say drunk and being too rough. Same lady told me sometimes the punter won't leave the linger well past paid time. Another lady Chinese says she hates the job. She quit found a job. I still see her.
Thai lady cringed when telling me she won't see Indians. Chinese lady told me she was bitten on the face by an Indian. I saw the wound just below her bottom lip. Another Chinese lady said she feels like punching some punters. I said why ? She say drunk and being too rough. Same lady told me sometimes the punter won't leave the linger well past paid time. Another lady Chinese says she hates the job. She quit found a job. I still see her.
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And those one or two porn shoots can end up at Vixens
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Had a few tell me the same about Indians. She used to always reach between her legs to make sure the condom was still on. Especially when doing doggy.
One had a guy who said nothing the whole time. Total silence.
Another said the punter had a gun. Management did nothing so she left and went to another agency.
Also been some funny stories too on the other hand.
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I know there are both cunts and good people in each race/nationality but does anyone know why there seems to be such high Indian representation in nightmare punter stories? Is there a cultural or socioeconomic explanation?
She probably didnt want to see you , because she would have to pay her boss their cut for your booking . No way would her boss waiver that . Dont worry about it
In my opinion, and from discussions with Indian friends/ coworkers: Indians are not exposed to porn/ open discussions on sex etc. in India porn is illegal, prostitution is illegal and taboo, Sex is a taboo topic in general with no sex education at schools . Majority of Indians end up in an arranged marriage which is most likely loveless or lack of sexual exploration.
I am no expert but if you are not exposed to sexual etiquette then you won’t know how to behave.
And yes India is a big place so depends where they come from village, town, big city. They are not all same.
I am just an academic with academic interest in sexualities.
Fun fact : well known escort agency confirms 70% of their clients are Indians.
Lastly another observation I have made is all of my punts with Indian escorts have been somewhat reserved. With some exceptions of course. I don’t find Indian woman open about sex high percentage is fraud.
I can only imagine poor Indian men being frustrated with their sex life and taking out on WG.
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Many cultures have made porn and sex work illegal ie Muslim countries, Korea as examples. Both Culturally as India have Alpha male types yet the incidence of rape seems to much higher in India. Could this be life is hard and the female life is not as highly valued ? Mere theorising. To be fair I know many Indians and their attitudes seem to be quite Western. So quite possibly it’s only a certain type or demographic of the Indian population? Again mere theoretical speculation.
I'm sure most of us who have built up any rapport with any girls have all kinds of stories, many of them not really suitable to repeat.
The drunk and annoying stories are common. I've heard from some girls who are working alone in motels that they only see people they already know in the evening... Having a drunk client must be a nightmare.
Then there's the rampant timewasting of guys who call or text and it never amounts to anything...
A now-departed regular (in Christchurch) had an issue with a guy who decided he was in love with her - she got a restraining order, but he continued to harass her for months. Lucky that NZ this work is legal so there was no problem calling the cops...
Regarding race issues, I was in Hong Kong recently and many of the adverts say that black or south asian clients are not welcome. You see similar things in Asian adverts in the US. I've certainly had several girls in NZ complain about Indians. I didn't ask them - they brought up the subject along with various safety issues. It's unfortunate that (I presume) a small minority is so annoying that so many of the girls I've met have the same stories.
One girl I know had a cop as a client for a while. He gave her his card and told her to call him if there were any issues. That's service for you!
Unfortunately, he now has a girlfriend, so is no longer a client...
And, noit directly related to their (the girls') job, but one of the girls working at Stella House a year ago posted some pictures on her WeChat of her and her friend being piggy-backed across one of the bridge by a couple of cops after some late-night partying at The Terrace... That's a real police escort...
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So a couple of stories I've heard. These stories are from like 20 years ago because to be honest the last thing I want to talk about during a booking these days is the other clients a working girl has seen. This was what a girl I saw regularly told me.
First one was her complaining she had a booking with an older Indian gentleman and he was too rough and squeezed her tits really hard leaving bruises so she reckoned she didn't want to see Indian customers anymore.
And also from the same working girl she reckoned some older South African booked her for an hour and he came in sat in a chair and emotionally abused her for 1 hour straight. He never even touched her or did anything sexual. He just slagged her off for being a prostitute the whole time. And also denigrated her for having sex with men of other races. I guess he was a white supremacist South African. Imagine that paying for a 1 hour bookimg just to abuse a working girl lol. I have no idea why she didn't just leave. It was a brothel as well so she could have just left the room and complained to the manager relatively easy.
First one was her complaining she had a booking with an older Indian gentleman and he was too rough and squeezed her tits really hard leaving bruises so she reckoned she didn't want to see Indian customers anymore.
And also from the same working girl she reckoned some older South African booked her for an hour and he came in sat in a chair and emotionally abused her for 1 hour straight. He never even touched her or did anything sexual. He just slagged her off for being a prostitute the whole time. And also denigrated her for having sex with men of other races. I guess he was a white supremacist South African. Imagine that paying for a 1 hour bookimg just to abuse a working girl lol. I have no idea why she didn't just leave. It was a brothel as well so she could have just left the room and complained to the manager relatively easy.
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Me. Mate, she did her job, she owed you nothing. You got what you deserved for ungraciously accepting an underserved 'freebie'.
Move on buddy. .....The sun will come out tomorrow.
as for the question re Indian punters....I notice that some profiles will state "No Indians" So when I go to a booking I ask "what's the buzz with the no Indian clause" They all have similar experiences, too rough, no respect, try to take off condom, try to negotiate lower price after accepting published amount. In general the exact opposite of what WG's want as clients.
as for the question re Indian punters....I notice that some profiles will state "No Indians" So when I go to a booking I ask "what's the buzz with the no Indian clause" They all have similar experiences, too rough, no respect, try to take off condom, try to negotiate lower price after accepting published amount. In general the exact opposite of what WG's want as clients.
