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Tried escort for the first time

Tried escort for the first time
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krvie

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I think Im now emotionally healthy with no holes to fill(pun intended). Or am just gay?

I tried an escort service for the first time, Im laying next to one of the hottest woman I have ever been with and I couldn't get my dick up. 10 years ago me would not have let this chance slip.

The escort is amazing, super feminine and accomodating, 10/10body, 100% my type, and im 101% horny. Dick is 150% flaccid

Wife flirts with me, 100% boner, wife's friend flirts with me, 100% boner, hot stranger at gathering, 100% boner, but for some reason somehow I can sense the forced performance in an escort service, and it turns me off. And I can see the girl looking burnt out, jaded and dissociated because of the emotional toll and exploit from this kind of job.

Should I try another? They all have to fake it, it's their job. My dick don't work knowing this.
 
Maybe start with a massage before getting down to the business; breaks the touch barrier, gives you and her time to get comfy with eachother, maybe have a little banter and build rapport before the sex starts. Yes, we pay for a service, but a good WG will also put you at ease and help you work towards you giving yourself the opportunity to just have some good old fashioned fun
 
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Your too worked up about the wrong details. 3 consecutive comments

Married men are preselected. People also want what they can't have, I'm sure this part you can relate somehow. We all see it

Mutual circles are the only exposure you have socially when you are busy. So yes, it's a turn on when other women flirt. My point is it's authentic desire
 
Agree - most of us here punt for a reason. Hobby, boredom with married life, don’t want to go through the whole dating cycle… the list goes on.
The point is: there is a reason to do it.

If you can’t think of a reason, you might as well not do it. I’d love if my wife still had the same libido from when we were just married. She’s hot and (used to) fuck great. But now… :(
That’s why I see escorts. But my wallet hates it LOL.

From what I understand, you are turned on by other things than just the physical appearance.
Stick to your wife if she still fulfils your sexual desires, mate. That’s my advice.
 
Did you feel pressured time wise? that can be a problem for me sometimes. Being a butt man, if a woman has an amazing derriere, I have trouble getting my face out of it,. I just wanna keep dining. Then next thing, it's "Oh fuck, I'm running out of bloody time!" Knowing the clock is counting down can sometimes be a problem. Some times I go limp or just can't reach a climax. (n) :mad: I think I really need to do 90 minute bookings.
 
Been punting before i got married so if i ever punt again would be different.

But its a confidence thing maybe after few tries atleast 10 you will be a seasoned pro.

But some places are a hit and miss. If a place has bad vibes you cant get hard regardless. Like chicks that bait and switch or bad breath, bad odour, unclean room, shady room, bad engagement etc.

Shop around recently i got into SM something which requires no work just a massage and a hj does wonders. Also is abit cheaper cant go wrong with a sm.

back in the days use to get sore knee from dogging to much. WG complain about thigh pain aswell.
 
May not be all sunshine and rainbows but your presumption they are all jaded/burnt out/forcing themselves is on you and your own problem
 
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