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DukeM

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I’d prefer not to name the WG in Wellington, but there have been some posts about receiving unsolicited messages from her. I recently saw her in Wellington, and out of the blue, I received a text in the middle of the day saying, ‘Would you like to see me again today?’—it completely caught me off guard, and I haven’t responded. If this were to happen again, how would you respond asking for no unsolicited marketing?!
 
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Trying to get Ivy fired up so she can release the beast within when you book with her?

Fortunately I haven't received any of these messages (maybe because the ladies don't want to see me again), but if I do not want to be contacted I would try and politely decline and let her know.
 
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"Today won't work for me unfortunately! Just for future reference, I prefer to keep my texts about bookings as discreet as possible so in the future could you please wait for me to reach out instead of texting first? I'd really appreciate that, thank you."

This is just an overly nice text response really, but being nice about it seems like the best way to avoid any upset or hassle.

For the record, this isn't typical behaviour from a worker and shouldn't really need to be asked to begin with. Discretion should be one of a workers biggest concerns when it comes to client comms. No cold calling/texts without them being explicitly requested is one of the golden rules.
 
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Greater opponents have and shall continue to fail at this game!

I think I'm immune to internet rage bait at this point. Worse even, I may take some masochistic enjoyment from the attempts to be baited. I clearly still yearn for the good old days of being on the debating team. Third chair, rebuttal queen.
 
Received unsolicited texts? Most of us have at some point — although not often from a WG looking for business. The response options are the same: ignore it (as the OP has done), reply politely that they may have the wrong number, send a message along the lines Ivy suggested, or simply block the number.

My approach is usually to ignore the text, but if it keeps recurring, then replying or blocking the number becomes the better option.
 
I'm guessing there isn't the risk of someone else picking up her text and causing issues. You would hope that your SW would be professional enough to have made the same calculation.

But I'd be annoyed and a lot less calm than you have displayed here if I hadn't given her prior permission that reaching out was okay - as it could be the straw which costs you half of everything.

A burner phone for punting is a far cheaper option.
 
If you can't sort a burner phone but want to be more cautious then I know most texting applications you can use on an android have an option to mute or archive a chat to prevent notifications or messages coming through. I assume iPhone will have a similar feature too.
 
Yup you can lock down msgs, set up alerts differently for different contacts in iPhone. Only took one CarPlay alert to make me sort that.
 
Mid afternoon Saturday I had a random cellphone call from a girl I saw over 2 months ago. She only does outcalls and wanted to know (URGENTLY) the place I took her to. So while she was not looking to provide service for me, I did find it awkward because I was driving (lucky I was alone and no one else in the car!!!) because the car switches over to use it's speakers for hands free talking. I told her i'll text back on my next stop.

She sounded very desperate because the hookup needed a place and she couldn't find a place. I suggested to go book a motel room and she didn't know where. Then she went on to ask why I have not seen her again, so I mentioned that her new fee of $300 was kinda steep when you add how much extra the punter has to pay for a motel.
 
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