The only thing I can compare this to is when I go get professional Thai massages. I'll spend $170 to $200 dollars for 60 or 90 minutes of a massage. I have regular places I go to where I know I'll receive excellent service, but I like to branch out and see if other places are nicer or different to my regular.
One place I got one in, the lady did not care one iota about what she was doing. The room was abnormally bright, she made comments on my skin that could have been an attempt to upsell a product but in reality was semi insulting, and she did not seem to like touching me, which is the opposite of what I want in a massage (deep tissue and strength is what I like most, and she was giving me weak pats down my whole body for 40 minutes, before telling me my time was up.
My regular places have ambient lighting, fresh cold water and some tea, the massage was continuous pressure for 60 full minutes, the ladies seem to genuinely want you to relax, and I can take 5 minutes at the end to reawaken myself and get ready to leave.
When I have a client, I am aware that what they are giving me in money is hours and hours of work for the average person to save up. I set an alarm for 5 minutes prior to the end of the booking in case they want a shower before they leave. I hang around and wait for them directly outside the shower so their whole booking can be spent with me. I do give it my all as I don't want to be the lady who gives weak pats and sends you out the door 20 minutes before booking end. I want to give the best physical service I can give and the best easygoing banter I can give. I encourage multishots, give massages, and ask if they want some water.
The issue that makes a working girl jaded and causes me to doubt the reliability of reviews here is that I have had clients who whisper beg during sex. 'Please, can I take the condom off? Just for a minute, we don't have to tell ANYONE, please, please, please?'
I used to give my clients three chances, let them know they had x amount of chances before I call it quits on the booking, now I give one chance due to how many simply do not believe I mean what I say. I had this happen a few weeks ago, the whisper beg to let them fuck without a condom, I told him I did not offer that, it was actually illegal, and if he asks again it will ruin the booking and he won't get his money back. Lo and behold, 10 seconds later, he's inside me, and out comes the whisper beg of please no condom? I leave the room, let reception know what is going on, and you know what happens? Pure denial, he's saying he never would ask such a thing, and I am scamming him. He was so believable in his reaction that even the receptionist was on the fence and feeling bad for him.
And here on this forum are reviews complaining about how some of the girls aren't attractive to you, they don't kiss, they make you leave early, they starfish, they smell bad, the showers are gross, their texting style is too blunt or takes too long, the prices are too pricey, these bitches are lucky that you chose them because you have the money and they want the money. The thing is, you might have the money, but they have what you want, which is an hour with a naked woman who is pretending to be into you. It might be a customer service industry, but the customer is not in control of the booking. There are certain clients who book where it seems all they want to do is argue, and then somehow be in the right at the end of the argument. The law provides me with the ability to have the discretion to cancel and keep the money, or cancel and refund, and at the end of the day every client can be replaced with another who can act like someone who can be respectful.
There is a cognitive dissonance somewhere in here with clients who say they are 'respectful' to the girls they book, that they have booked loads of girls (not the ugly ones though, amirite?) Over the years, and yet are continuously unsatisfied with their bookings. The common denominator is you, my guy. The whisper beg client I had might genuinely believe he's done nothing wrong, and you genuinely believe you've done nothing wrong, it is these devilish siren cat women who cast a witch spell on you and then leave when the hour is up, you suddenly realising your wallet is empty and you just partaked in being one of the 100 or 1000 that 'ran' through her.
I enjoy the banter with 80 percent of my clients, but putting up with a disrespectful customer is the last thing sex workers should do.
Please, spend this money on a sexual health therapist because working girls will simply find someone else with the same amount of money with no masculinity or power dynamic issues regarding their bookings with them. The clients who make reviews on forums such as this make up an incredibly tiny percentage of clients to what the average working girl has in a day.
Thank you for coming to my Ted Talk.
