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Review WARNING: Traumatic Experience at Crystal and Friends – Nightmare Became Reality

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That's a little lacking in nuance don't you think?

Yes SWs do in fact face a lot of risks.
And that, as you rightly point out, should not be diminished.
That's awful, and nobody should be subjected to any of that while just trying to earn a crust.
So 100% with you in that point.

Where we diverge, is that the issue that happened to the OP goes beyond a little scratch.
There was intimidation, coercion and the potential for some very real wider reaching problems involved.
I'm sure that you, me, any SW, or any person in general would be exceptionally shaken by what the OP reported happen to him.
I don't think it is snowflakeish to be a bit shaken.

Could the establishment have handled it better?
Yes, I think that they could.
Could the establishment have handled it worse?
Also a resounding yes.

I don't think dismissing something as 'snowflake' behavior is really doing anyone on either side of the punting equation any favors.
If it is easy to dismiss OP's, again probably quite traumatising experience, then it gives license to some of the less savory punters out there to dismiss things that happen to SWs ... which would be a terrible tragedy.
This entire industry's foundation is mutual trust.
What the OP reported is objectively a breach of that, just the same as a punter ripping off an SW would be.

Maybe we can stop flinging around 'harden up snowflake' all the time in this country, and we might all be better off ... yeah?
 
Message Crystal and threaten you will take it to the police . What would have happened if she said you had tried to rape her ? This behaviour is dangerous . The receptionist is your witness . I know Crystal looks at this site . Come on Crystal what are you doing about it ? That conduct from one of your girls is a disgrace
 
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Yeah there was obviously the potential for a lot of things to happen but we're talking about what actually happened and not whatever imaginary situation you could come up with mate, it was just a scratch— no worse than something you could pick up on a bush walk.
 
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You are very fixated on the "scratch" which is really a very small part compared to the emotional turmoil he experienced that day.This mindset reflects a form of toxic masculinity that we urgently need to challenge and change. Its the kind of thinking that contributes to the large suicide rates amongst men. Telling someone to "toughen up" and completely dismissing their feelings is not only unhelpful, it's harmful. Everyone deserves to have their feelings acknowledged and supported.
 
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You're concentrating on the wrong aspect.
I mean the scratch is still physical assault, but that's an aside point.

If you read the OP you'd have seen that there was also intimidation and coercion at play.
As well as a very real attempt to alter the story of what had happened when the receptionist got involved, so I guess that counts as manipulation.
Are you trying to tell me that none of that is a problem, in an industry that relies absolutely on trust?
Because I'd call that a pretty big issue.
I hope you aren't one of the people that goes on about B&S all the time, because that also is a breach of trust.
Just like agreeing to certain acts with the SW and going and doing something they hadn't agreed to would be a breach of trust.

I'm not sure if you're being intentionally miopic, or you haven't actually read the OP, or what.
 
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It's not the size of the injury that matters. It's the fact that it happened at all. Had the OP been a gorilla personality it could have got fucking messy. You don't expect to have a bunny boiler on the job at your punt. SWs being under the influence of drink or drugs on the job is a recipe for disaster. This episode shows clearly the perils of punting. You only need one SW go loopy and claim you did all sorts of things. Then you get hung out to dry.
 
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The thing is one girls attitude shouldnt ruin business for the other girls. There are plenty good reviews of other girls on this platform.
Should the girls leave and move else where?
What has crystal done about the situation so far? (to author)
Would you not want to invest in a business run by management Iike this?
I'd love to hear from the author to see if things have been resolved
 
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sometimes its the non physical scars etc that cause the most hurt. The other actions mentioned in the post would all lead to those other scars.

Also, if it was 'just a small scratch' to the SW would you be saying the same thing? I'd hope not which is why dismissing this is even weirder
 
It reminds me of a incident I had many years ago, in Christchurch we were on the edge of the bed her legs was over my shoulders and she had a pillow under her bum to lift her up abit and at just the right angle to hit the Gspot..me standing and just pounding away hard and fast and it slipped out out and by accident it went into her ass. She screeched and shouted which I could understand was very painful. I was very apologetic as it was an accident and then she started to punch me. She demanded I pay another $200 for this to go away or else she will report me to police for rape… I grabbed my clothes dropped an $50 and made a b line for the door. Running down the street all naked with a semi hardon and condom still on…. Ha ha. I never heard from her. But it was genuine an accident and how do you deal with things like this. Her word against mine if she really called the cops on me.
 
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Even if was an accident, you probably could have caused some serious damage there. Some compensation would be the least you could do. Either pay her off or let her do the same thing to you so you could feel her pain 😆 I doubt the punches hurt as much as her ass. The amount of times we hear clients say "sorry, it slipped" makes it harder for us to believe. I even read on here some punters admitting that they pretend their hands slipped by a mistake to touch where they want and those guys ruin it for the rest of you hence the strong reactions you get from SWers.
 
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