Review WARNING: Traumatic Experience at Crystal and Friends – Nightmare Became Reality

[Dee]

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In what way dramatised?
The owner of the place admitted that the incident happened and offered to make amends.
That would suggest no dramatisation took place.
Just because it didn't happen to you doesn't diminish the effect it clearly had on OP.
Try to show some empathy instead.

 

[customer]

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Why would it need to be specified that the worker returns as sober if there is no alcohol on the premises?
Their website even states there's a 'cheese and wine board' available FFS.

 

[Preferacuck]

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The alcohol has been taken off the premises due to what happen is what I'm Saying
Looks like the website needs to be updated

 

[Pete Rocker]

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You seem way to invested in blowing this out of proportion. Do you have an axe to grind with this establishment? You have taken what the OP said further than he did. You seem to take everything the OP said as gospel. The owner said ''I cant comment. I wasnt there" and “I understand your concern, but you have to agree that in this industry, you deal with people of different personalities and colours.” Suggesting she thinks he is being dramatic.

Most male punters acknowledge that there are risks associated with engaging the services of a Prostitute. Not a ''Therapist'', a Prosttitute. One of those risks is that she has a had a bad day, the last guy treated her like shit and the next guy is gonna cop it, and you may be that next guy. Another is extortion, getting set up, blackmail, stealing your wallet. Not saying its right, but as punters you learn to navigate it. A bad punt, you take the L, warn others and move on.

My empathy lies with the young lady that is clearly in a bad place. Not so much with a grown man called AssHunter that pretends to not know the difference between a massage therapist and Prostitute. He and you are either incredibly naive or in denial about what exactly he was doing at a low budget rub and tug spot that night. This aint a hairdresser appointment.

 

[alex]

Am I missing something?

I agree this needs to be shared so people can avoided that girl, as she sounds nuts

But what part traumatised you? Shit experience, but if you get traumatised by a crazy hooker asking for more money and upset about a finger nail scratch, I’m surprised you have the pallet to book an escort in the first place

I was expecting the story to turn into a false rape accusation with the authorities getting involved and it turning into a big case where your wife found out and left with the kids. That would be traumatic.

This feels at most a semi noteworthy story you can tell someone for a laugh

 

[Dee]

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TLDR

No I'm not invested ... blah blah blah (couldn't get past the first couple of words, so paraphrasing you).
I'm trying to get people like you to not dismiss other people's experiences, because they aren't your experiences.
You seem very invested in diminishing other people's experiences, for some odd reason.

What I will say is, that since you seem to be so invested in making the story go away, every time you reply, you bump it straight to the top, thus keeping the story in current circulation ... this would be counterproductive to what your desire appears to be.

 

[alex]

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How old are you? And do you have a job?
I'm not trying to "dismiss your experience"
I just don't really understand how you could be a working-age man, without having countless life experiences where people ask you for money or lie about something

So I genuinely don't understand which part of this traumatised you?

 

[Dee]

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Lol

How old are you?
Do you have a job?
I just really don't understand how you could be a working age man, without having countless life experiences where people express their experiences and you dismiss it because it doesn't fit your world view.

None of it traumatised me, if you had been taught to read at school, you would have figured that part out.
It traumatised the OP, we know this through the simple mechanism of him openly saying it.
That's his experience, and just because you don't like it doesn't make it less valid.
I am simply expressing empathy to the plight of a fellow human being.
This country would be a lot better if more people did that.
Instead we're stuck with people like you, that can't put themselves in another's shoes.
Good luck with that kiddo.

I have said all that can be said on the matter.
So if you and a couple of others here want to keep screaming into the void, you are welcome to do so, but I am moving on to more fun, interesting and productibe conversations.

 

[alex]

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I must have been sick when they taught the importance of carefully checking sex forum OP's

I just assumed you were OP, as you are also clearly haunted by this traumatic account. A girl you're paying asking for $50, A scratchy fingernail, and potentially alcohol consumption. It's nightmare fuel. Imagine having a conversation, then getting a scratch.

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I find that extremely offensive. Some people don't have feet, it's an outrage that you use this expression when it excludes the less able-bodied. What about the people who can't afford shoes? Are you openly mocking them?... Can't you empathise with your fellow human being?

Just like OP's conversation, this conversation is deeply upsetting and traumatic for me. This is my experience, which you must now acknowledge as valid

 

[Breaker]

Yeah probably time to lock this thread eh lads, nothing else productive is going to come out of this.