What's your 'bait n switch' threshold?

[Bonobo]

Been wanting to open a discussion on this for awhile. With prices increasing and distressingly services decreasing sometimes after the price goes up (a bit like Wellington's public transport system), the cheaper touring asian option appears to be on the rise and with it the ol' bait n switch scenario where the person you get ain't the one advertised.

Just some background. I do love asian ladies. It's a thing for me. The way they always go for the male nipples mmmm ...ah TMI And being notoriously and proudly unfussy I'm never overly concerned with looks, weight or age ... within reason! I'm more interested in sexiness, kindness and how they fire off in the sack. When I have a cheap Asian punt, I go in there knowing the girl I may see may bear only a passing resemblance to the ad. If she's a bit older or heavier I don't mind, I expect it. To me that's not bait n switch, just the perils of an industry that's always exaggerated somewhat. But if she's a COMPLETELY DIFFERENT PERSON to the woman in the ad then that's a bait n switch in my world. I do a smart about-face and march my full balls and wallet outta there. That's my 'bait n switch' threshold.

Kindly bearing in mind everyone is different, with different needs, expectations and backgrounds. What's your bait n switch threshold?

 

[Hornybutbroke]

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Good question. It’s so variable. If I have booked in advance then I’d hope for 80-90 % minimum similarity in size or shape or look or age. Much depends on how they present as well ie welcoming attitude and presentation. A lot also depends on how full my ball sack is feeling. Sometimes that weight outweighs all logic . I should have walked on more.

 

[Bonobo]

Yup a full set of balls has very little decision making capability. Can confirm. Many times I should have walked. Not so much from how she looked but demeanor ... which unfortunately only comes out after you fork the cash over

 

[Slippin Joey]

I can't do big whales. If the ad is s 6 or 8 and 160.
Asian or anybody.
Turn up and it's a whale I leave.

 

[JohnnyPunter]

Nothing worst when you book a hot petite little Asian girl. Then you show up and it's fat old Aunty with pancake makeup.

 

[Hornybutbroke]

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Gotta agree with that. No amount of weighted balls can keep Homo erectus up then

 

[massagefan]

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As a sticker on a hot rod I once saw said “no fat chicks, just fat slicks”.

 

[Slippin Joey]

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I saw a car with mobile number on the back and front window, it was a young guy.
It said number xxxxxxxx then alongside - Low Standards.
Translation is he will fuck anything.
And yes in my younger years I'd do the same.
Not now though.

 

[OnlyHermes]

It's very rare but sometimes the switch turns out to be (probably) better than the bait.

My threshold is that I will go through with it if the switch is someone I would have booked anyway and they give off the right vibe. I did a lot of walking because of this threshold.

Haven't run into B&S issues for a while now by sticking with reputable girls/agencies.

 

[Bonobo]

Ah yup! That's true too. I've had many that were absolutely awesome! It's definitely not all negative. In fact 90% of the time I meet awesome people in my punting 'career'. You generally do if you follow the universal rule of not being a dick.

 

[dt69]

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90%. Wow, you're luckier than me, or I'm a little stupid with the adds I book and shops I go to. 50/50 for me. Yes I have met some awesome ladies that I've gone back to many times, and I'm booking on the cheaper end of the market. Most are honest people trying to pay the bills, but some are not cut out to do this work.

 

[Bonobo]

I guess it depends on your tolerance levels. Being 51 and fat I'm not too concerned about age and weight etc. So, from that perspective I guess it's next to impossible to bait n switch me! I just don't give a rats arse!

 

[dt69]

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As my age is getting up, their age doesn't bother me. In fact older is what I look for. It's more about having some sort of connection. GFE.

 

[Bonobo]

That's my approach too. Now...when you pay for services you don't get ie full service price and she says 'solly onry handjob' after your money has disappeared....then I get annoyed. Oh that one's happened.

 

[Big D]

I've had two bait and switch experiences. Both Asian escorts.

1st one.
Woman was completely different. A lot older. Not at all attractive. I could pick someone up like her in a sleazy bar. Not paying for that! I immediately pointed out she was not the one I booked. I even gave the name of the woman on the profile which wasn't her. She directed me to the madam of the escort who I complained to.
The madam asked "You want someone younger?'
"No, I just want the woman I booked. Not someone else. I'd like to have my money back and leave thankyou." I was leaving on principle! Not putting up with this bullshit.
Fortunately she didn't argue with me and gave me a full refund.

The second was a woman on Escortify.
I looked at this woman at the door and I wasn't certain if it was the girl I'd booked (you know how Asians often look alike - I guess they're counting on us thinking that!) . I didn't remember the name of the girl I booked so I didn't challenge her. So anyway I ended up with this girl in the shower (I'd requested that before I came) and I'm looking at this woman and touching and kissing her because she wasn't bad looking but her body wasn't as good as her pics. But I'm still giving her the benefit of the doubt.. She did a really nice sloppy BJ in the shower without a condom. And we go out of the bathroom to go to the other room and low and behold the very girl I'd booked comes walking in the opposite direction. No doubts about it! I recognised her straight away!
I turned to the woman I'd been with and said "Hey, wait a minute! That's the girl I booked!"
And this bitch started going on about how "oh she wasn't available so you got me. That's what happens. It's like when you walk into an agency off the street you end up with whoever's available at the time."
I argued. "this isn't just me walking into an agency off the street. I specifically messaged that particular girl to see her, not anyone else."
She kept arguing. "No, that's not the way it works."
I said, "Yes, that IS the bloody way it works. Tt's been the way it's worked every other time I've booked an escort. and it's been the way for about ten years now. That's the way it works with online bookings. II see a profile of a girl and I message her because she's the one I want to see! This is dishonest. I'd like my money back please. I'll pay for what you just did, but I'm not staying any longer."
She agreed, so I paid a smaller amount she asked for and left.

Lessons I learnt:
1)Always double check with Asian escorts to make sure you are going to be seeing the girl in the profile. Specifically say you want to see "{name}" and nobody else.
2) Agencies seem to use the same phone number for all women at their agency. So they may think they can get away with bait and switch because you haven't actually asked for a specific girl. (because you think you're texting a specific girl not an agency.) It may be that I didn't actually specify a name when I booked but it seems they must surely know you're booking an actual escort from their online profile!

I will mention one other experience - not bait and switch but it was bullshit.
I was another Asian woman on Escortify . The woman I asked for by name to avoid a bait and switch. . Met with her. Private motel. Probably not an agency. Then found after she got her clothes off that this was definitely not the woman in the photographs. Her body absolutely nothing like the amazingly hot pics. Totally different body shape completely.
I said to her. "Hold on, hold on, I need you to see this."
I got my phone up and brought up her profile. "Look. These photographs aren't you!"
There was automatically this dark expression from her but at least she didn't try to deny it.
She starts appealing to me. "It's alright. I give you good girlfriend experience. I give you discount. It will be very good girlfriend experience."
On principle I refused. (she had an awful body anyway. Not anything I was willing to pay for! If anything she should have been paying me. LOL).
I said "I want my money back please.'
She's standing there naked and says. "but you've already seen this" and beckons towards her unattractive body.
And next thing she's texting someone on her phone.
I'm thinking, "Oh, shit, there's gonna be some guy turning up here to unleash Kung Fu on me."
I said "Oka,y I'm don't know who you're texting, but I'm not comfortable with this. You can keep 50 bucks." I just want to go in case a Kung Fu master showed up
Finally she relented and returned my money less 50 bucks.
I was just glad to get the hell out of there. I reported her profiled to Escortify as a fake and an hour later it was removed.

Lesson I learnt this time:
On Escortify, only go for the women who have verified photographs! Or at the very least make sure when you get there to ensure she is the same girl in the pics before you hand over the money.

 

[Slippin Joey]

Thanks for your insights.
Just a piece of friendly advice.
Make your mind up before you hand over the money.
And second before any service commences.

 

[Monger]

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Yup Im exactly the same.
Cant do any whales. Chubby girls yes I can do. but im stopping seeing them from now on.
only done one girl that would be considered BBW It was the situation I posted about last week.

The reason why they keep doing bait and switch is because no punter actually cares.
If the punter shows up and the girls "bangable" In his eyes. The punter will always hand over the cash