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Why do you guys use escorts? Don’t you find it shameful and pathetically desperate?

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Seems like a serious question.
Here's my serious answer: I'm in no mood for courting a woman. And I see the escort for sex service. That's it. I don't want calls. I dont need them popping up. No thanks.

Also I get to have great sex with numerous highly attractive women with great personalities on a very regular basis!

You are interested in incomes. Look, everyone has their thing. Maybe you're into motorcycles or collecting valuable magic the gathering cards, who knows. We're adults with adult income and we budget for this hobby.

Shameful? Pathetic ? Nope. It's legalized in NZ you know.
 
(Edit - Ok, I see this guy has admitted to being a troll but I already typed this out before I read those posts. So I'll leave my response anyway...)
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Why do you judge a persons worth on who they have sex with or what they've given up for it. I find THAT shameful. Are you a religious prude or maybe still living in the 20th century?
How many women have you wined and dine and spent hundreds of dollars on before they opened their legs for you? Is that any different than paying for an escort?
At least sex workers are honest about what they do. They'll say "Yes, I'll have sex with you if you pay me." Unlike many of the women I've come across in my life who lead you on a merry chase.
I have some disposable income. Not a huge amount. I can afford it. It gives me pleasure. Allows me to be with young beautiful woman I'd have no hope of hooking up with if I went searching in bars, clubs, or churches. Saves a mass of time. I can take a couple of hours off work and head in for some fun.
I'm not desperate. I can get sex without paying for it. But I rarely find women my own age sexually attractive.
It's exciting getting with a SWer. It's like a box of chocolates, right?
I love that there's no strings attached. I can see the girl again if I want. Or I can move on to someone new.
Some one new! How cool is that? Not the same starfish day in day out, year after year. Women who just expect to lie there while you do all the work. Women who expect you to pay everytime you go out to dinner. Women who want half your house and your money if you ever break up. I wonder how many of those you've come across!
I also feel a sense of pleasure in knowing that I'm helping some young woman reach her goals and dreams. Helping her pay for her education, her travel goals or to get money to buy her own home. I know the majority of my money is going to that woman not some corporate business who's raking in millions and only the shareholders and a few overpaid managers are getting the benefits. I just hope the girls I see are not supporting a drug habit or being forced into it by someone or because of desperation. :(
 
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Yeah this was a deeply unpleasant post from the guy. Desperate to do it (even to the point of planning it), and yet hating the idea of it. That kind of twisted self-loathing can put people in a very weird and damaging place.
OP, just relax, its ok. Nothing to be ashamed of. Don't need to judge, or worry about being judged. If you decide it's not what you need, that's cool just move on.
 
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