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Review Worst experience in SL - didn't even do the deed.

This shit is blowing my mind. I can't fathom how this might happen. The idea of being too shy to tell a SW I have paid for services to suck my cock or whatever would be fucking rough as.

Hopefully bro you get some confidence and can just push through it.

I have a mate that was a virgin till his late 30's and he was mega timid with girls. I opened up to him about punting and got him into it. Was the best thing for his confidence with women, but I could imagine him being like this at first.
 
This reminds me of an experience a mate of mine had. I might have told this story before. But he was drunk one night and ended up going to the brothel after a night of drink. Picked some girl and she talked him buying a bottle of champagne. Then she suggested they have a spa bath. He reckons he was so drunk he lost track of time and they spent most the booking in spa bath chatting away sipping the champagne. I bet she was having a good old time. He only came to his senses later and reckons he only had like 15mins left on the clock. So he made her get out and manage to do an extra quick quickie before the time ran out. She was probably playing to stay in the bath sipping champagne until the end of the booking.
 
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JohnnyPunter said:
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Who would refuse easy money, this kind of happened to me. I was at a strip club and I went to a room that had a nice spa. FS was never part of the deal so you can't say that I got ripped off.

But when you compare the amount of money that strippers charge vs full service and what services are offered there is no comparison.
 
Squidward said:
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I had similar experience with a mate of mind too who was very inexprienced/shy in bed and wanted a practice run with an escort before the real thing on wedding night.

The boys made sure that was articulated to the agency and they picked a SW that suited him, he never gave us the full blow of what happened but I was sure he had a cracking time judging by the sweat and looks on his face when we came pick him up :ROFLMAO:
 
I've never tried agencies... SL has been on top of the list. Is it discrete enough in terms of location compared to others? Might not be worth it
 
Personally although I haven't been to SL for a long time . The ones I did bang there looked like models .
I would prefer to have sex with a young , pretty girl and couldn't give a fuck if she was inexperienced or not . I think some of you don't realize how lucky you are . I assume you don't look like a male model with rock hard abbs . Some of these girls must have to service some hideous looking clients
 
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I guess I can understand the shyness factor. And if you're a novice with punting you may not know what you're entitled to. You might think you just have to go along with what the girl suggests or does. You may not have the courage to say "Hey, I want this" or "I want that". I know myself in my early days of punting I always waited for the SW to lead the way and tell me what to do. Now, I look back on those sessions and realise I didn't get my money's worth for most of them.

God, I remember my very first punt when I was 17, paying extra to have a spa bath with the girl. And I just sat there talking to her not even moving in to make the moves to cuddle up with her or feel her up. Just looking at this naked woman in the spa opposite me. o_O How clueless was I? Now that was one SW who was trying to do as little as possible for her fee! Never had anyone that bad in SL! Most of the girls I've been with have been pretty proactive with giving me a good service.

Took a while to learn that I could actually ask for what I wanted... and to the point where I was aware enough of what should be included, to be able to tell them what I wanted.
 
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Jessie45 said:
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Yeah, I think I'm inclined to agree. For me it's about the looks and body and their interaction with me. How do I connect with them? Do they make me feel like they're into me? Eye contact is a must. Flirting. Fun banter.

She doesn't have to be a sexpert. Having said that there are SL girls there who give me the best service I've ever had with SWers and I've been punting off and on for a long time. So I guess you've just gotta find the ones you click with.

SL lets me live a fantasy I had when I was in my late teens and early 20s of living in a uni flat with a whole heap of hot babes who wanted to fuck me. :ROFLMAO: Only thing is I have to pay for it!

Maybe my expectations aren't as high as some guys when it comes to service but I've done a lot of punting over the years and had never seen the same SWer more than twice. Until I found SL I've seen a number of them there now 3-5 times. But, there are other agencies in Auckland there I've never got to visit, being a Hamiltonian. Who knows what I'm missing?
 
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Well said. To a degree I get it that ultimately SWs are paid to give a service regardless of your look as long as you meet the requirement of clean and respectful. But must be a lot more difficult if you don't meet the traditional beauty standards, so yes I consider myself lucky.

Also re: starfish I think there are two types -

a) a girl brand new to the industry, inexperienced, nervous so will lie down there hoping for the best. But with enough leads from the clients, they will try to put in the effort.

b) a girl who has been in the industry for a while, hate her job (but like the money), probably a bit burnt out so will do the bare minimum for a quick cash grab, likely in between sugar daddies anyway.

I don't mind a but hated the b.
 
In cases like this i would take it as a lesson learned. Stalling can be common. Its part of the game, and in fairness to the WG its probably on you for freezing up. Leaving the room to get ready at the start of the booking can kill time, fumbling with music etc. But once she is naked on the bed thats your cue to proceed, or ask her to. She probably found the interaction quite odd. You starfished a starfish.
I can get nervous/shy pre first punt with a WG. What i do is layout a pretty generic first text in the initial booking stage to lay out what i want and agree to price, as would get embarassed to ask for extras in person. example in your case (not what i would write).
"I would like to book you for 1hr GFE at xxx time. I would like an intimate booking with DFK, mutual oral and fingering. Its my first time with an escort, and am a bit nervous so would like you to take the lead."
 
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