Obviously some of this could be different in your circumstance given you are 'dating' a SW. So this relates specifically to client/SW dynamics.
These also may be different for other SW's, but for me -
• Clients asking too many very personal questions
• Trying to have a lot of on-going messaging between bookings (
without offering to pay for chat)
• Using the 'L' word, talking about having 'feelings for us' or wanting to 'rescue' us.
• Attempting to speak to us if seen in public
• 'Bumping into' each other in public too often for it to be a coincidence
• Texting a lady, "
I just saw you at XYZ" is creepy AF
• Price haggling
• Boundary pushing. Saying no ONCE is a full sentence, and we do not have to explain why we don't like or don't provide whatever it is
• Trying to mansplain or give us advice on how to do our job
• Making inappropriate personal comments, such as comparing us to a family member like a wife or child
• Speaking negatively about or comparing us to other sex-workers in a session or in comms
• Having a condescending attitude. Acting in a belittling or arrogant manner
• Arriving to a booking with poor hygiene, which demonstrates a lack of respect
• Turning up drunk or high
• Trying to argue about having to shower
• Asking how many 'dicks' we have had that day
• Refusing to pay deposits even when we have discrete payment methods, and are well-known/reviewed
• Asking for N A T U R A L or just going on about how much you hate condoms
• Blaming us if you experience ED (
In saying that, it is nothing to be ashamed about and its better that you tell us before hand)
• Going on and on about how loaded you are, then not tipping or asking for $5 -10 change

• Intentionally taking forever to get dressed at the end of a booking (
pressing for free extra time)
• Too much really graphic or personal info on reviews
• Holding the threat of bad reviews over our heads as a means of coercion
• Demanding to be our 'first client of the day'.
• Carrot dangling
• Attempting to access our real life social media
Im sure there are more that will come to me when Im fast asleep...