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Request Review Can I ask for oral without condom ?

Farzy24

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Dubai lad here, planning to visit NZ soon. I did my research for the punting scenes and which agencies I find appealing. I am aware that they're very strict with safety measures. However, I would like to know if it's fine to personally ask if they offer oral without condom and then proceed for the remaining stuff with condom. Do you think some escorts in agencies tolerate or not at all? I will be as nice and respectful towards them, just wanted to know the insight with the experienced homies. I would also like to come on their mouth too so that's again taking condom off lol, I know some charge as extra so do share your detailed response.
 
It's illegal in NZ for a prostitute to provide oral sex without a condom. Some of the cheap (mainly Asian) girls offer it as an extra though; many of them are working here illegally anyway, and only here for a few months so are willing to take that risk.

It's unlikely you would get that from a reputable girl/agency. Asking during the booking might even get you kicked out or at least get a frosty response. You could plead ignorance as a foreigner but the damage may already be done, so it's not worth risking it.
 
It is technically illegal but its more common than many realize (or like to admit), even at the "more reputable" agencies. Some kiwi working girls are willing to do it but not usually on the first visit. A lot of them are open to doing it on overnight bookings which you could argue is leaning into sugaring anyway. You can ask some at an agency but it would be best to be subtle about it as they may react strongly. Although to be honest they are probably used to getting asked it all the time.

You might just be better off stopping over in Australia where it is essentially standard practice and booking a girl there. Alternatively you can always just look for a sugar baby instead which is an arrangement with a non-escort regular girl where ******* sex and oral is available and technically legal. I'm sure you will easily be able to find what you are looking for with all your Dubai money.
 
Depends on whether you are a betting man. You may be rewarded with rapture… or rupture of a private part – depending on the lady’s stance on such things. As I’m famously not a betting man, I lead a cautious life and suggest everyone does the same.
 
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Thanks for your guidance mate, yes I am aware it's illegal, and I will be subtle for sure when asking. Btw I am a guy in early 20s who never had a gf or punting experience as its illegal here anyway lol, there are shady places for that but I am not comfortable going there. I came Auckland alone few months back and I tried SM at Sensual Relax with extras, that was my first spicy experience lol. I didn't have the courage to lose my virginity that time as I didn't research enough to find someone appealing to bang. This time I coming with family, and I am planning to sneak out at night from hotel telling them that I am just going for a walk ( My Dad is religious so if he finds out he will kill me lol) . So I am shortlisting the ones I like and plan for the final one for my first true happy ending lol.
 
@Farzy24 are you looking for a white girl only or are you considering Asian as well?
If you are open for Asians, in my experience pretty much any independent or Asian agency girl offers *** and ***. Look for VIP option in their ads.
 
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  • Safer Sex Practices: Both the sex worker and the client have a legal obligation to take all reasonable steps to practice safer sex (e.g., using condoms or other appropriate barriers) to minimize the risk of transmitting STIs. Failure to comply is an offence, and both parties can be fined up to $2,000........."
I wonder how often prosecutions actually happen ...?
 
If you are punting with non-Asian kiwi girls I would say it’s not worth the risk asking. Some will respond very negatively and it will make them act sour during the rest of your session.

Get experience at sex and flirting with punting then hit up the dating apps and you will be able to find girls who will suck your cock without a condom for free.

Alternatively, punt at Asian places that offer “VIP service” and you will definitely get a blowjob without a condom.
 
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Testing is generally offered without scrutiny as it protects the community. PrEP and Doxy they will ask more questions for sure but testing is different.

The questions they ask when you go for a test helps them to understand the level of risk and the types of tests you need. They aren't interrogating your sex life.
 
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