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Does anyone actually tip?

Does anyone actually tip?
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We had one escort here making a comment about getting tips from punters.
Does anyone here actually tip on top of the payment they make up front?
I'm guessing it's probably punters from overseas who tip. Maybe this escort is just hoping she can influence us. :p


(I wonder how many escorts are gonna jump on this thread pretending to be punters. "Yeah, I tip all the time and so should you!" :D)
 
I will tip people I see regularly - of which there are 2, one local the other out of town when I see her intermittently.

A $250 gift voucher for Xmas for one.

$50 extra for sessions as a matter of habit helps cover the room fee.

Recently did $100 on top of an $800 2 hour booking.
 
I have tipped at least $10 to $30, every girl I had good time with. And I tipped every time If I see any girl again. $50 is the highest I tipped to one girl, but that's before covid lockdown. Now a days, mostly I stick to girls I have seen before as the cost of punting has gone up. Especially now most SW charge extra for wearing good lingerie or some outfit they wore in the ad.
 
I tip if through a combination of if really enjoy her company, the experience, her effort, and basically if it feels right and it was worth it. $50 is the most I've done
 
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I have a few times if the service/connection was especially good.
Once when she reminded me to take the change that was sitting on a shelf. I said she could keep it. It was a good service on the cheaper end of the scale.
If you haven't got the correct money they go out of the room to get change. By the time they get back you are naked on the bed so the change is put on a table/shelf for you to forget about when you leave. :oops:
 
i usually dont
but if the service is exceptional, I might give an extra 10, 20, 30
this is usually reserved for the more regular girls i see who are incredibly good value.

i try to carry exact change or close to it
i find ANZ cashpoints will distribute 50s only if your withdrawal rounds to a 50/100
but BNZ cashpoints will distribute a bunch of 10s and 20s which is handy
 
I will if service is great or beauty is a bit more than anticipated, like when the young asian isnt a bait and switch, bonus!
 
I never tip as I have pretty strong feelings against tipping in general. I think tipping culture in places like the US etc is disgusting and destructive so I never want it to take hold over here - even in regards to sex workers. Tipping is not part of kiwi culture and I don't want it to be.

If a sex worker is really good and I like her I will just help her out in other ways, seeing her again and putting out a good word for her. Maybe pay for a few extras next time I see her.

In a way they are already incorporate tipping into their prices anyway. They have different tiers of service... GFE, premium girlfriend, porn star experience, VIP etc. Not to mention you have to pay for a menu of extras. In the old days when I first started punting in the early 2000s literally it was "Full Service" which literally included everything (COB, Kissing, breast play, foot jobs etc) apart from anal. The only extra back then was anal so basically asking if a girl did extra was asking if they did anal. At least that's what it was like at the places I went to. These days everything is an extra cost.
 
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Another way to look at "extras" is that they are just an agreed upon tip.

For example if a girl lets you do something that she doesn't usually let her customers do, for example cum on face, and afterwards you are grateful for it so give her a tip of $50. Instead of just letting some guys do it and hoping she might get a tip, she instead offers it as an extra in which the "tip" (or payment) is agreed on before hand. So in a way paying for an extra is tipping but the punter knows he going to get the extra service and the girl knows she's going to get the tip/payment.
 
on my opinion a tip isnt for another service its for just giving a little extra to make their day
i know they dont need it for the range i like to see $300> but its nice knowing they will think of me fondly from doing it
 
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I technically wouldn't call this tipping. I agree with you that US tipping culture is bullshit because it is essentially just a hidden cost that you are obligated to pay. If you can be discerning about who and when you tip, I don't mind so much. Plus, slipping a girl you want to revisit an extra $20 at the end of a 5 star session is a good investment too, because they always seem to remember.
 
Somehow I don't think they are going to pay much attention to a $20 tip on a $350 booking when they get 7-10 customers a day. 🤣

A $100 tip would be different scenario. You'd probably just be better off bringing a gift or something if you really want to stand out and for them to remember you. Trustscope brings them their favourite food (like sushi for Jaz).

I would also add I'm pretty sure just about every working girl would rather you pay for a few extras rather than just giving an extra $20 tip at the end. Especially the sensual massage girls. They will definitely remember the guy who splashes out on extras over the $20 tipper. 🤣
 
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None of the girls I book work long enough shifts to see that many clients a day, thank fuck

I'd never take a gift like a favourite food, that seems a bit personal to me, but more power to anyone who makes it work for them

I'm pretty much exclusively SM these days and always get extras, but agree that just a $20 tip won't cut it if you just get a standard massage. As a gift on top though, it asks for nothing in return at the end of a booking which seems to make it memorable. As long as you haven't made a dick of yourself in the past hour of course.
 
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