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Does anyone actually tip?

One SM girl I see charges a pretty penny for oral on her as an extra. She likes oral but the problem is she has a really sensitive clit and cums several times even during a short oral session. If she was constantly having her pussy licked she would find it difficult to work so she charges more to ensure not every punter wants it.
 
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I definitely remember doing DATY and french kissing but I only recall doing with a couple of regulars I would see at the brothel and they would never charge me extra for it. I don't remember much kissing with the other non-regular girls back then, perhaps just on the lips, but to be honest its a bit hazy trying to remember all my encounters 20+ years ago. I also remember doing COB and breast play occasionally with some girls and they never seemed to charge extra for it.

I remember one girl selling me on anal and to be honest she seemed more interested in doing it than I was! And it was only an extra $50... LOL. That's the only extra I ever remember paying for besides extending books occasionally. I remember her picking up the phone to call the reception and I think they bought up an eftpos machine. I remember I didn't enjoy it because there was a bit of a smell LOL

Edit: Actually I dont thinkthey had mobile eftpos machines then. Maybe it was they would call the receptionist and she would make you pay for the extra on the way out.
 
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SW have the right to set any boundaries under the law and frequently do. Other than that while work may be unpleasant that is the same in most jobs even those in which the worker can’t say no to many things they may find unpleasant. Too many people in NZ expect something for nothing and unfortunately there are often many more takers than givers.
 
I remember doing DATY (and the occasional anal where the SW included it as part of the booking) in the 90's. Those days, the only extras were for extension of time, where the receptionist would zap your credit card with those click-clack card imprinters.
 
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Let’s examine this for a moment. You get paid what? 50 bucks maybe for a shower extra. Maybe about 15 minutes in the shower? Then there’s your flat rate. Probably 350 for the hour so that’s 87 bucks for fifteen minutes of your time anyway. So you’re getting paid 87+50 – that’s $137 for 15 minutes of handsy time. Well more handsy than what he’s gonna be doing for the other 45 minutes, right?

If you weren’t in the shower for 15 minutes what would the guy be doing to you instead?

Sure, okay, maybe there’s some discomfort for you and it messes a little with your hair and make up but it seems to me that 50 bucks is pretty much the equivalent of a generous tip for only fifteen minutes of time which you were going to spend with him anyway doing God knows what to you.

But you still want more on top of that 137 bucks?
 
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I don't think anyone here has a problem with escorts having personal preferences. Generally if there is something they don't like they usually don't offer that service.

The disagreement in this discussion seems to be more around whether its better for the working girls to get a tip or to earn more money from doing extras.
 
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Yeah I can imagine some girls may have bent the rules with regulars, perhaps it was more common than I thought too.

$50? Some of you got bargains. $500 was the going rate for anal at my brothel back then.

Your backdoor story reminds me of my first time. I was a baby hooker and had a client with the skinniest sword I've ever seen, I still haven't seen it's like again over 20 years later. It looked like a good opportunity to lose my anal virginity so after he came I asked him if he'd like to go a second round doing anal. It was his first time too and he kindly obliged.

It wasn't you I badgered into it though! I didn't charge him extra because I just wanted to satisfy my curiosity with someone who had less intimidating looking equipment.
 
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I used to go mostly to Mustangs Gentlemans club in Albany around 2003 where I was a VIP lol. Back then the full service rate for an hour was $160 if I remember correctly. So $50 for anal probably wasn't too bad for the girls that did it.

$500 for anal seems a bit extreme for that time... that would be like charging about $1200 today when adjusted for inflation. Did the girls get many takers? $50 would be about $120 today which is probably quite reasonable considering.

I guess it depends where you worked. Different areas and different brothels probably had different ways of doing things.
 
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Well I don't charge anything for showering together because I simply don't offer it. A lot of assumptions need to me made about my pricing and services offered to come to these conclusions.

I don't typically include showering in the time unless the client has an unpleasant attitude or behavior.

There are more practical reasons for not showering with clients which I'm about to bore you with:

I can't wear normal mascara as even the waterproof stuff comes off and gives me bad panda eyes. I use tubing mascara instead which shrink wraps around the lashes rather than paints them and stays in place better, and it is removed with...warm water. When wet it melts off and can get into my eyes which is painful. My ******* lashes are short, and building longer ones with layers of primer and tubing mascara is time consuming.

My hair is very fine and getting water on it when it is dry can make it frizzy and look like crap for the rest of the day. It also takes 30+ minutes to dry with a hairdryer. Time spent redoing my hair, skincare and make up is typically around 2 hours. Quite a chunk out of my work day, and I have had to cancel bookings and lose out on income when my make up or hair has gotten completely fudged (as can also happen when clients inadvertently get oil in it by touching it after touching my oiled up body), and I haven't had enough time to redo everything between bookings.

So pretty silly to offer showering together, which I don't enjoy anyway.

I learned a long time ago after getting badly burnt out in this industry that it's best to specialise in what I'm good at and genuinely enjoy doing rather than try and be a jane-of-all-trades. Work-wise making that change was the best thing I've ever done for both myself and the punters.
 
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