Gifts to WG's
Gifts to WG's
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I don't know how common it is, but I very rarely go to a booking without a little something extra.
On a first visit, most often it's a punnet of some sort of berries. Sweet, healthy and not "too much" that might worry her about what you might be expecting in return.
On a first visit, most often it's a punnet of some sort of berries. Sweet, healthy and not "too much" that might worry her about what you might be expecting in return.
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EzyRider
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The question I always ask myself is "will she use it?"
I don't usually take anything the first time, but @Harry H has a good suggestion. Something like berries or chocolate they will probably like and in any case they can always share if they don't eat it themselves.
For regulars who I know drink, I take them some wine. The name and/or picture can be a little warm-up joke: Seduction, Fickle Mistress, etc...
When Michelle was here two years ago, I settled on a particular mid-range wine with a memorable picture. When I saw her at Pillow Talk Petone in January, I took a bottle and both she and Helen remembered sharing bottles together, so that was a win.
Not exactly a gift, but with the Asian girls, especially with the upcoming New Year, get some red envelopes from an Asian supermarket and put the cash in one of those.
Most of all, listen. When I first saw Ruby in December she mentioned she liked dark chocolate, and she kidded about how we were "China Girl, Kiwi Boy" (I'm sure she said that to all the Kiwi boys, but it was still good fun). So, the second (and sadly final) time I visited, I took her some dark chocolate and a Kiwi key ring, which she thought was hilarious.
I don't usually take anything the first time, but @Harry H has a good suggestion. Something like berries or chocolate they will probably like and in any case they can always share if they don't eat it themselves.
For regulars who I know drink, I take them some wine. The name and/or picture can be a little warm-up joke: Seduction, Fickle Mistress, etc...
When Michelle was here two years ago, I settled on a particular mid-range wine with a memorable picture. When I saw her at Pillow Talk Petone in January, I took a bottle and both she and Helen remembered sharing bottles together, so that was a win.
Not exactly a gift, but with the Asian girls, especially with the upcoming New Year, get some red envelopes from an Asian supermarket and put the cash in one of those.
Most of all, listen. When I first saw Ruby in December she mentioned she liked dark chocolate, and she kidded about how we were "China Girl, Kiwi Boy" (I'm sure she said that to all the Kiwi boys, but it was still good fun). So, the second (and sadly final) time I visited, I took her some dark chocolate and a Kiwi key ring, which she thought was hilarious.
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Do what you want, you don’t have to. If you don’t expect anything in return you won’t get disappointed. .
Longer bookings I usually try to take something for during or after.
Also gifts can be more discreet than cash as a tip.
ps I am shit with
best recommendation do the opposite of what I do 
Longer bookings I usually try to take something for during or after.
Also gifts can be more discreet than cash as a tip.
ps I am shit with
best recommendation do the opposite of what I do 
A lot of ads say of gifts something along the lines of "Never expected, always appreciated", which is nice.
I've given gifts to regulars occasionally, something I know they'll find useful based on past conversations, but I like the idea of berries!
In short OP: yes, yes, yes. Flowers are best.
In the morning before a first booking with a WG, I’ll spend a relaxing time at the local florist selecting a perfect bunch of mid-red coloured carnations. A bunch of 6 is good I find.
An hour before the booking I’ll shower and exfoliate thoroughly at home - paying careful attention to my rear end and associated accoutrements. I affix the stems of the carnations into and along the valley of my newly readied buttock crevice - flowers at the top. Top tip: Use florist tape to ensure the posie stays in place en route. Mirrors are your friend to get the right arrangement.
I then step into my pants carefully locking all into place.
Travel to the rendezvous point can be hazardous - so be careful there. Standing on the bus is best. Bicycles are not recommended.
At the session I ready myself on the bed after the girl steps out of the room. Often, when the girl comes back in and finds me lying naked and face down displaying my floral gift, she may utter the words “What the actual fuck??!!”
I take that as a good sign and It’s often the prelude to a wonderful session as my floral scent fills the room. But not always - so pick your girl and carnations carefully OP.
In the morning before a first booking with a WG, I’ll spend a relaxing time at the local florist selecting a perfect bunch of mid-red coloured carnations. A bunch of 6 is good I find.
An hour before the booking I’ll shower and exfoliate thoroughly at home - paying careful attention to my rear end and associated accoutrements. I affix the stems of the carnations into and along the valley of my newly readied buttock crevice - flowers at the top. Top tip: Use florist tape to ensure the posie stays in place en route. Mirrors are your friend to get the right arrangement.
I then step into my pants carefully locking all into place.
Travel to the rendezvous point can be hazardous - so be careful there. Standing on the bus is best. Bicycles are not recommended.
At the session I ready myself on the bed after the girl steps out of the room. Often, when the girl comes back in and finds me lying naked and face down displaying my floral gift, she may utter the words “What the actual fuck??!!”
I take that as a good sign and It’s often the prelude to a wonderful session as my floral scent fills the room. But not always - so pick your girl and carnations carefully OP.
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Wow what a stud, I bet the ladies can't keep there hands of you. You probably could have booked a punt by the time you finished writing the flowers tip.
Haha. True. Maybe the PMs will flow in to me now mate
. I won’t hold my breath though. I forgot to mention that roses are not ideal. Thorns are not our friends boys.
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It was an slightly entertaining read. If you write like this I look forward to a review from you. It can be a gift from you to the forum.
If your inbox gets flooded with pms let me know. And I will take some notes down for the future. Flowers are not my area of expertise.
I’ve done a few. I’m more focussed on games and entertainment now though.
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With touring girls that are in motels etc, I often take fruit or wine. This usually goes down well.
For girls that i have met before, it usually tailored to their tastes/hobbies
For girls that i have met before, it usually tailored to their tastes/hobbies
Yeah, I do for occasions.
If running on time I'll swing by a Cafe and turn up with her coffee order. Its cheap & appreciated. If not sure then I found berries have become a safe option. Early punting days I would bring wine/chocolate but discovered a good percentage didn't drink or were weight watching.
For a regular, consider something from an adult shop. It's on task and not too sappy. Its also fun picking something, knowing you'll get to see it in action. I've taken a WG to Gigi's and had her choose a few things...its a good sized shop in Auckland but expensive.
Another fun option (far cheaper) between bookings buy something online from ATMS and get it delivered to her address.
If its someone you intend to revisit, then subtly ask preferences. By the time you visit again they will have forgotten all about the "small talk" conversation and you look pretty good at picking it. That can also fall flat - a WG told me Pizza or Roast Chicken... next visit I showed up with a Nando's voucher, she didn't get the joke.
They don't expect stuff, but no harm if it makes you feel good in doing so. Don't go over the top or they will think you are catching the feels and block you for your own good.
If running on time I'll swing by a Cafe and turn up with her coffee order. Its cheap & appreciated. If not sure then I found berries have become a safe option. Early punting days I would bring wine/chocolate but discovered a good percentage didn't drink or were weight watching.
For a regular, consider something from an adult shop. It's on task and not too sappy. Its also fun picking something, knowing you'll get to see it in action. I've taken a WG to Gigi's and had her choose a few things...its a good sized shop in Auckland but expensive.
Another fun option (far cheaper) between bookings buy something online from ATMS and get it delivered to her address.
If its someone you intend to revisit, then subtly ask preferences. By the time you visit again they will have forgotten all about the "small talk" conversation and you look pretty good at picking it. That can also fall flat - a WG told me Pizza or Roast Chicken... next visit I showed up with a Nando's voucher, she didn't get the joke.
They don't expect stuff, but no harm if it makes you feel good in doing so. Don't go over the top or they will think you are catching the feels and block you for your own good.
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When I first started venturing forth, I was adamant that I’d pay only the advertised tariff - as per any normal commercial transaction. The things is - and it took me a while to fully appreciate this - the industry doesn’t observe the rules of mainstream commerce, where service provider loyalty programmes abound. In this industry, has those expectations are flipped.
Anyway, eventually - with a regular - I embarked on the gifting thing. It started with sharing fruit and bubbles, which was great, insomuch as our tastes aligned, progressing to the (impossibly cliched) stage of gifting lingerie. With my SO having zero interest, beyond the perfunctory, in undergarments, this has been (albeit moderately expensive) fun, and something I may not have got to experience but for this artificial construct. With my regular nominating the options …… the success/satisfaction rate has been right up there.
If her tastes were exclusively ‘Victoria’s Secret’ or ‘Honey Birdette’, I’d leave lingerie gifting to some other chump, but the stuff I’ve (prudently purchased) has represented decent value.
Soon she will update her NZG photos, and I’ll peruse them thinking ‘yeah, I gave her that’
In answer to your question ….. you shouldn’t feel under any obligation. But given time, and the right relationship, it can be a fun, moderately expensive adjunct, to an expensive pastime.
Anyway, eventually - with a regular - I embarked on the gifting thing. It started with sharing fruit and bubbles, which was great, insomuch as our tastes aligned, progressing to the (impossibly cliched) stage of gifting lingerie. With my SO having zero interest, beyond the perfunctory, in undergarments, this has been (albeit moderately expensive) fun, and something I may not have got to experience but for this artificial construct. With my regular nominating the options …… the success/satisfaction rate has been right up there.
If her tastes were exclusively ‘Victoria’s Secret’ or ‘Honey Birdette’, I’d leave lingerie gifting to some other chump, but the stuff I’ve (prudently purchased) has represented decent value.
Soon she will update her NZG photos, and I’ll peruse them thinking ‘yeah, I gave her that’
In answer to your question ….. you shouldn’t feel under any obligation. But given time, and the right relationship, it can be a fun, moderately expensive adjunct, to an expensive pastime.
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Yes, that sort of thing can feel special. Where she's wearing or displaying something that only the two of you know that you bought...
Offer to use her phone/camera to take a few photos of her wearing them. Fun in it's own right or extendable to a lecherous photographer vs. innocent model roleplay.
She might even end up using some of your photos in her ad.
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I find cash the best present
A large flat white is my love language. You'll earn so many brownie points from me if you show up with a coffee in hand tbh.
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Sure, but is the Singapore tipping culture the way to go?
It’s been buying another experience, to go with another purchased experience.
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Cash is good too, and I would not advocate spending a lot on a gift. However, as @Ivy Brooke indicates, some relatively inexpensive gifts will be well-received. It appears that Ivy would be more impressed by a flat white than a $5 tip.
