Request I need opinions, help.
Request I need opinions, help.
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Sorry but failing to consider goals and yours in particular is a mistake! Goals provide framework and direction
Sorry but I disagree strongly about the “goals” aspect. If our friend doesn’t have any then he has no framework against which he can measure anything. He may change those goals at any time. But understanding what his goals are and what her goals are provides a benchmark against which he can assess his options and possibilities. He doesn’t need to make any quick decisions but he can move slowly towards a better understanding while maintaining a happy relationship in the meantime. Just one man’s opinion.
Jimbo
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This is really the only answer, just ask her where she thinks this is going.
ladies_man
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Situationships are fun.
Open and honest discussion is key.
Open and honest discussion is key.
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I know how this can work, I have a sw that has becone a FWPB, friend with paid benefits.
I get extras that aren't advertised and we have contact outside of work.
I enjoy it and don't question it as molecules can behave differently under observation.
What I get out of it is a cessation of the need to punt other sw's, like everything has settled down in my life and I am content between visits.
My advice to the op backs up the "ride the wave" advice, don't overthink it, and don't ask questions, see where it goes without expectations.
I get extras that aren't advertised and we have contact outside of work.
I enjoy it and don't question it as molecules can behave differently under observation.
What I get out of it is a cessation of the need to punt other sw's, like everything has settled down in my life and I am content between visits.
My advice to the op backs up the "ride the wave" advice, don't overthink it, and don't ask questions, see where it goes without expectations.
Good way to be . Not being nasty to the OP who started the thread , but feel he is getting sucked in This lady has a motive and hope she isn't taking advantage of him as he seems a nice guy . People like us who have been around know to be careful and dont let sex lead us down the wrong path
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If there is sex at the end of it...is it really the wrong path?
Over the years I have been offered money , free sex for PR .Two other young asian girls wanted me to father their child , get married for two years then split if things didn't work out . One of them told me if we married had a child and split she would sign over her apartment to me . The OP sounds like a good guy just dont want him to get tricked into something . But if he keeps his feelings under control good for him
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PR? Wha' dat?
Permanent Residency . So they can live in NZ
JohnnyBeeGood
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What’s her link? I can go check her out for you and see if she is what you say she is
. Just for confirmation. 
Chuckie, that you mate? hahaha
Lol . Keep guessing
abcdario6969
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That's a good point. Maybe loneliness is leading me to feel a great affection for her because of her actions, although, well, actions that escorts don't usually have, haha. That last thought is something I've been wondering about for a while. The escort world is tiring me out; they promise things they don't deliver, or they're simply not the people in the photos.
abcdario6969
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I appreciate everyone who took the post seriously and gave me answers with the intention of helping me clarify my doubts. I'll see what happens; perhaps I'll update the situation in the future.
Might have to if she is not private
EzyRider
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That is, indeed, something to consider. If she's working for a boss, then the boss will usually be expecting a cut from each booking.
And if she is private, she has expenses to cover - travel, motel, advertising...
