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In all honesty it’s the same as dollhouse set up by ex dollhouse girls as long as you are kind respectful friendly clean and tidy they will provide the service and you don’t have to wear a suit and tie there I just go in long shorts with clean tidy clothes lol remember the clothes are coming off lol
 
There is some great advice in this thread. I just want to add some further points as someone who was in JT4's position 17 years ago.

Losing my virginity to an escort was one of the best things I have ever done. It removed any of the unknowns I had about sex, gave me confidence around women which led to me getting into normal relationships eventually. I also got to experience sex with women of a wide range of nationalities, ages and body types which was awesome and honed my tastes in women.

For your first sex worker experience I would recommend going to Deboanairs for a sensual massage (nude massage and handjob). This will get you used to being around hot female nudity so you do not feel overwhelmed when you eventually go for a full service (sex). After you have done that and gotten comfortable around hot naked women, book a full service at a reputable agency like Dollhouse. Let us punters know what sort of girls you like and we can recommend one for you. Alternatively when you are making the booking let the receptionist know you are a first timer and would appreciate someone who can guide you. Look for reviews on this website to find a girl who is well reviewed.

Sex is lots of fun. Punting can be addictive. However, you don't want to spend all your money on punting because you are a young bloke with other things you need to spend on and save for. Set a punting budget so you do not blow all your money on sex.

It can be easy to fall in love with escorts when you start punting. Sex and intimacy releases a lot of endorphins. Additionally, a lot of sex workers are lovely women and very good at their jobs. But be aware these women are professionals. They are offering a service (albeit a very intimate service) similar to how other professionals, like doctors, lawyers or accountants provide a professional service. Therefore, enjoy your time in the room with them but do not mistake it for an affectionate relationship developing. Your escort may well like you a lot or even be attracted to you but it is a bit like how a professional or shop keeper might have a particular client or customer they really love seeing and enjoy having a good chat and banter with. Enjoy your time in the room with her and learn what you can from her. Do not mistake it for a budding relationship.

Use your new knowledge of women and sex learnt from punting to eventually get into non-commercial sexual and romantic relationships. Get a friend to take some nice photos of you and get profiles on Tinder, Bumble, Hinge etc. Get out there are meet some women.

Finally have fun! Punting is a huge amount of fun and the lovely sex workers out there can really open your eyes to an important and enjoyable part of life.
 
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If I did the same when I was 19. Losing my virginity to an escort not from my crush, wonder if my situation would have changed..

My first sex was with a crush she was 24 back then we made out but I was so nervous I couldnt cum nor keep it stiff.. probably thats why she ghosted me and I got traumatised 🤣🤦🏻

Sex is fucking lot of fun. When I first started blew 10k in 2 months.
I realised it needed to change.
Created a bank account for punting where I would deposit some of my income into punting account and only use that money for punting. Not taking any more from my savings.
It works! Need discipline though
 
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gwenkm9 said:
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Bro, you lost your virginity to a hot 24 year old when you were 19? You are the fucking man. Don’t worry if she ghosted you. Some women can be a bit flakey and others are too anxious to reject a man directly. However, having those experiences makes meeting a woman who is reliable more exciting.

Having a punting bank account is a great idea. It is the modern version of my whore jar. Is even better than my whore jar because it attracts interest payments.
 
I appreciate all the advice from everyone. I'm still working on finding the confidence to take the step of losing my virginity. Starting with a sensual massage seems like a promising approach. Right now, I'm based in Auckland, but I'll be relocating to Christchurch shortly. I have a preference for busty, curvy women, as well as those who are New Zealand European and New Zealand Asian. I would love to hear any recommendations you might have!
 
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Awesome bro!! Nikita is one special woman. Glad you had a good time with her. I thought she would be good for a first nudie massage experience.

Full Service recommendations:

I used to see Valentina when she was at Debonairs and she was awesome. She does full service at the apartment now. I haven’t been to her yet for full service but she is a very patient and kind natured woman who explains everything clearly so she might be a good bet for a first service.
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I would also recommend the Dollhouse for full service. The ladies there tend to give a good service and the place is well managed and reply promptly to texts etc. There is probably a lady there who might catch your fancy. I personally really like Luna.
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Porsha at the Apartment would be another good bet. Small but curvy in the right places. She is very relaxed and friendly. Provides a great service.
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I enjoyed my time with Porsha. She is very friendly and would he good for a newbie. I think Luna has the tastiest anus though.
 
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