Sugarbaby/overnight questions

[Nelly]

Hello guys, long time punter first time poster.

I've been punting for several years but lately been feeling like I need something more. I am looking for more of a sugarbaby/overnight type scenario. Maybe go somewhere nice, do an activitie or two, dinner and I've course some fun. More of a intimate, going away with a GF for a night type of experience. I am looking for some advice how I can go about finding this as I'm not sure how (usually just go to brothels for punts here in chch).

From research, seeking.com is supposed to be the goto site for this but upon signing up I was shocked to discover they require you to send them ID, yeah no thanks..

Would love to know how I can go about finding a lady for this and how much I could expect to pay? Are there alternatives to seeking? I was thinking like $1500 would be fair but that maybe low

Thanks to anyone that helps

 

[12345qwert]

Seeking is full of scammers these days (online only or platonic) so don’t waste your time.
$1500 per night (8 hours) is possible but you won’t find a quality girl, spending overnight with someone you need to have good company I would aim for $2400-$3000 price point for an enjoyable time.
I have done over nights twice only so not too experienced.

 

[OnlyHermes]

Good idea to go for a 1-2H booking to see if you vibe before booking overnight.

 

[Lemon6949]

$1k for a overnight stay is more than acceptable, and I’ve had hundreds of gems for that, escorts are $3k overnight

 

[dt69]

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I have seen the odd ad on NZgirls & Escortify that mentions overnight.
I've never taken this option, but have asked ladies I've seen on a regular basis for dinner/overnight/couple days away.
These have been private not agency, so can make there own rules and no minder taking a %.
If they like/trust you they may like the idea of a payed dinner & activity and fun time.
Ask. you've got nothing to lose.

 

[JohnnyPunter]

To be honest if you're single you're probably better off just dating some girl. I know it can be challenging to meet one.

Otherwise sugardaddymeet dot com is another one you can sign up on that doesn't require ID. Funny thing is you will find some escorts have profiles on the sugar daddy sites as well.

 

[Jessie45]

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Why ? If you feel lonely that won't help . Stick to what you are doing

 

[Jamesboi]

Seeking is the main one, so if you don't want to sign up and pay the $200 /month fee you aren't going anywhere tbh. $1000 a night is plenty. Usually you might $500 / night plus dinner plus hotel so $1000 all up. On the positive side raw sex civ / real gfe is basically the accepted standard. Stds and potential child support is a risk but no different from dating. Also the hassle of setting something decent up is high - be prepared to wade through a bunch of shit to find gold. If you are after 1hour in and out punts,hookers are way easier and cheaper tbh but then you are strapping it up....

 

[Babenco]

Why not just ask one of your regulars? If you dont have any that does it, find one that would do it, take for a test ride and tell her

 

[Jessie45]

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Haven't been on the site for a while since I got banned lol , but prior banged some pretty ones and won't go into what they offer . But yeah seeking.com be careful they will ban you for any excuse and keep your money

 

[JohnnyPunter]

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They ban you for discussing paid sex on there don't they?

 

[Jessie45]

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Anything they think is suggestive and there is no warning , bang you are gone and so is your money

 

[Jamesboi]

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You just get a number and take it to WApp.. There is alot of time wasting though

 

[Jessie45]

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A lot of girls used Kik . I used to fuck this young Japanese girl who was surprised I wouldnt fuck her raw . Tempting because she was so hot but god knows who fuck these girls . She ended up going to Melbourne

 

[Jamesboi]

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Clearly you are a man of a level of self control I don't possess!

 

[JohnnyPunter]

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That's kind of weird considering on sugardaddymeet they seem to have no problem with it, including negotiating the prices via the messages.

Also I can imagine the creep moderators on seeking probably reading all the conversations with their dicks in hand lol.

 

[Jessie45]

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Seeking.com when I contacted them years ago was a female . I told her she is pathetic and a con woman taking money from clients knowing full well what that site is all about . Others I knew also got banned and their cash taken

 

[OnlyHermes]

I know a hot sugar baby (early 20s, blonde/blue eyes, hot body), if you're keen, have the $, and safe, PM me.

 

[mrcap]

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For me I go on the dating apps tinder bumble etc. Have met a few and had alot of success. Problem is after a while they want more than just a fling so they start to fade away then you're onto the next. Just be straight up from the start and you have all the fun while it lasts AND save money rather than spending on a WG good luck

 

[Jamesboi]

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Issue is that if you are +40 the reality of you being able to pick up hot 23 year olds without $ is pretty negligible unless you are like Brad Pitt / Leo level famous. If you have $, nice cars, houses, watches etc - any age eligible girl (late 20s up) is going to want a relationship and anyone remotely worthwhile isn't going to fuck before date 3 (which you will be paying for all), so it all kindof evens out. If you are sub 35 you should probably not be in the sugar scene tbh...