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Sugarbaby/overnight questions
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Nelly

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Hello guys, long time punter first time poster. 😅

I've been punting for several years but lately been feeling like I need something more. I am looking for more of a sugarbaby/overnight type scenario. Maybe go somewhere nice, do an activitie or two, dinner and I've course some fun. More of a intimate, going away with a GF for a night type of experience. I am looking for some advice how I can go about finding this as I'm not sure how (usually just go to brothels for punts here in chch).

From research, seeking.com is supposed to be the goto site for this but upon signing up I was shocked to discover they require you to send them ID, yeah no thanks..

Would love to know how I can go about finding a lady for this and how much I could expect to pay? Are there alternatives to seeking? I was thinking like $1500 would be fair but that maybe low 😅

Thanks to anyone that helps 😊
 
Seeking is full of scammers these days (online only or platonic) so don’t waste your time.
$1500 per night (8 hours) is possible but you won’t find a quality girl, spending overnight with someone you need to have good company I would aim for $2400-$3000 price point for an enjoyable time.
I have done over nights twice only so not too experienced.
 
$1k for a overnight stay is more than acceptable, and I’ve had hundreds of gems for that, escorts are $3k overnight
 
Nelly said:
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I have seen the odd ad on NZgirls & Escortify that mentions overnight.
I've never taken this option, but have asked ladies I've seen on a regular basis for dinner/overnight/couple days away.
These have been private not agency, so can make there own rules and no minder taking a %.
If they like/trust you they may like the idea of a payed dinner & activity and fun time.
Ask. you've got nothing to lose.
 
To be honest if you're single you're probably better off just dating some girl. I know it can be challenging to meet one.

Otherwise sugardaddymeet dot com is another one you can sign up on that doesn't require ID. Funny thing is you will find some escorts have profiles on the sugar daddy sites as well.
 
Seeking is the main one, so if you don't want to sign up and pay the $200 /month fee you aren't going anywhere tbh. $1000 a night is plenty. Usually you might $500 / night plus dinner plus hotel so $1000 all up. On the positive side raw sex civ / real gfe is basically the accepted standard. Stds and potential child support is a risk but no different from dating. Also the hassle of setting something decent up is high - be prepared to wade through a bunch of shit to find gold. If you are after 1hour in and out punts,hookers are way easier and cheaper tbh but then you are strapping it up....
 
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For me I go on the dating apps tinder bumble etc. Have met a few and had alot of success. Problem is after a while they want more than just a fling so they start to fade away then you're onto the next. Just be straight up from the start and you have all the fun while it lasts AND save money rather than spending on a WG good luck 👍
 
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Issue is that if you are +40 the reality of you being able to pick up hot 23 year olds without $ is pretty negligible unless you are like Brad Pitt / Leo level famous. If you have $, nice cars, houses, watches etc - any age eligible girl (late 20s up) is going to want a relationship and anyone remotely worthwhile isn't going to fuck before date 3 (which you will be paying for all), so it all kindof evens out. If you are sub 35 you should probably not be in the sugar scene tbh...
 
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