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Here are my top handy tips for punters!

#1: I take notes of who was kind and respectful or not, who tipped or not, who was unusually difficult, or who tried to push boundaries and get more services than what they paid for. And then I put you on a black list and never see you again. If you are particularly bad I send your number out to forums for other sex workers to put on their black list. Reviews go both ways and the industry is saturated with customers.

#2: Stop assuming every provider lays around waiting for you to message. Screening / scheduling / admin / getting ready all takes time just like in any other profession. Many are only doing this to fund our further studies and business endeavours.

#3: Stop thinking that reviews tell an entire experience. Most are either embellishing or punishing with only one side presented. What I may feel comfortable offering to one client vs another is absolutely different based on hygiene alone. If you are rude/ disrespectful / or just disgusting I will not give you a good service.

#4: Before you go writing reviews bagging a ladies appearance. Give yourself a hard reality check. You are paying her for sex because obviously no one / not many people want to have sex with you for free. Look at yourself in the mirror. Give yourself an evaluation similar to what you give the ladies and then really think to yourself if you are really that much above her.

#5: Professional photos - for sure I could do them and then instantly charge more for that mirage. If you want to pay more for photoshopped photo girl then, again - that is entirely each to their own. I prefer to keep my overheads as low as possible so that I can charge a better rate for a good service.

#6: You are not going to get the best service if you don’t take the time to get the lady ready for penetration. We are actors - but unlike fake crying, you can’t exactly “fake make yourself horny” if you will lol

#7: You get the time you pay for. It’s not my fault if you choose to talk for half of the time you have paid for. Similarily I will not text with you for free or send you photos leading up to our booking time, why would I? Offer compensation

#8: Price does have something to do with quantity. People will and do pay more for less sexual exposure. If you think it’s cool that some providers will take 3+ clients a day then enjoy, it is absolutely each to their own. But no one is paying me enough to increase my risk of cervical cancer. Higher prices for a low volume provider also generally means better service, as the lady has time to rest / better prepare / and have more energy to give you. A constant stream of clients is exhausting, and I found when I was higher volume it was very hard to give a service to the standard that I am capable of.

#9: Not every provider has a social media because many value discretion in the same way that you do for the same reasons that you do. Also why would I let you see my life or ludes/nudes for free.

#10: Generosity, politeness, consideration, and REALITY CHECKING yourself goes a long way.

#11: Put the god damn toilet seat down, put on deodorant, brush your damn teeth

#12: If you conduct yourself against what any of this post warns about. You are pathetic and we view you as such.



Hope This Helps!!!
 
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Oh I’m so sorry to hear, must be such a horrible thing to have to go through. May I offer you my deepest condolences.
 
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Shot big daddy ;)

I have a normal life and a normal job outside of doing this work, I do it because it’s exciting and fun. Fortunately I can afford to be very choosy with my clientele but a few bad ones get through my screening process sometimes, and definitely put a damper on the experience for me :/

It’s the risk I take, I’m aware

But just because I choose to do this line of work does not mean that I am suddenly up for degradation and disrespect… unless consensual and paid for of course ;)
 
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I've always wondered about #8.
I can't imagine how some girls who work an 8 hour shift at EG or VR give consistent service. Like I'd be exhausted after 2 hours of banging lolz. I guess they're not booked the whole time sure but there are some highly attractive girls there who are surely taking 8 or 10 guys a day.

It's why I try to book then early in their shift.

Thanks for the perspective.

Also add we should wash the balls and ass thoroughly. I always do!
 
“Find a job you enjoy doing, and you will never have to work a day in your life.”
 
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I’ve got to disagree with you on this one. It doesn’t matter how much sex someone is having outside of punting. They’re paying for a professional service, and attractiveness is a huge part of the customers satisfaction. You don’t go to a restaurant and then get told not to complain about the shit food because you can’t cook well either
 
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I have to disagree. It's not the men who can't get laid for free .... punting .
I think it comes down to convenience. I've had better sex with escorts than with partners. With me sex is best with someone new, whore/non-whore.

I've waited for partners to go to work then get a hooker. With partners anal is easier to do. Anal with an escort not interested.
For older men if they have some cash can easily bang an 18 year old. 18 year olds will do most things for money. Special bjs seem to be common these days.
 
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Of course a SW being attractive helps the punters. It's not always about how hot she is. She might give great head and have a Devine beaver, or so things other girls won't do. For example some time ago on a classifieds site met this part time hoe. Not the greatest body or face but her personality was cool and she sucked like a porn star. Basically any orifice was available for the price of a couple big Mac combos. She worked a normal job and did this for fun and some extra dosh.
 
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Very nicely written and very fair in my opinion.
I would like to dive a little more on #8 chch has only two average agencies and the girls are there for a long shift, I always booked early as possible and so far has worked well for me but, outside of that where else to go? There are way too many B&S in the private sector. What would your recommendation be to find a girl that does it for the fun, the adventure and a bit of extra cash but also has a decent structure, consistency, and systems in place?
 
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A working girl years ago said to me. It's quick money but not always easy money. A young girl working this industry for a few years, cannot be good for her minge. I doubt most are funding their studies. Why work a normal job if you can make that in two days of rooting random men. Unless you highly skilled or educated where you can get a 100k salary. My friend has two degrees works in finance and gets about 150k a year with medical insurance and super
 
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