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Does anyone actually tip?

Does anyone actually tip?
Does anyone actually tip?

We are seeing increasing evidence of the pervasive American custom of tipping creeping in here, most notably at restaurants where many have a tip line. What I dislike about this is it places an expectation on you to tip otherwise you are perceived as a miserable or tight prick. Then if you tip just a small amount the same feeling pervades, and if you tip a larger amount an already expensive outing becomes that much more expensive.

In the context of the sex industry and this has been covered well earlier in this thread, tipping is really done in the form of extras or the different service layers the lady might offer. I might sometimes opt for the extras, and tbh in a lot of cases you are paying quite a bit more for not a lot extra, the value is often negligible so the extra money is in effect a tip.

Where I might tip, or at least have it perceived as a tip is when I round up to 50 or 100. It has always felt a little awkward forking over say 4 50's and a 20. And I don't really like carrying around assorted denomination notes in my wallet so usually prefer to just withdraw $50 notes which just feels cleaner. Besides apart from maybe going to the races where else would I use the cash anyway.

But overall I do not like the idea that tipping becomes the norm or an expectation.
 
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Yes in America I did find it annoying how I did have to tip for everything as it added an additional layer of cost that I am not used to.

I do agree that extras are a great way to tip, at an agency it is nice to see that she gets to keep the whole amount for any negotiated extras.

I think a tip is a small gesture, but I reckon the ultimate tip is where if I had a great time and she was exceptional with her sevice. In the future I will make a repeat booking, or post up a good review/recommendation and letting other punters know they are in for a good time
 
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I remember you came to Wellington earlier this year and book my outcall,

it was extended for another hour, so the total cost was $980,

So I should to give you $20 in change, But your $20 still here.

Does this mean I'll return it to you with interest next time you come?

I don't know if the interest is enough to buy a cup of coffee😬
 
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What else do your notes say? Hoepfully you don't expose me too much. I go for a mix of SM and FS. Depends what I feel like on the day and who is available.

In the Wellington market I think there are more FS ladies vs SM although some do offer both.

A bit of mystery is always fun, I think that's why I like to see new girls vs seeing a regular or two for now.
 
The beautiful Xiao Qi . DFK was an extra $20 so gave her $50 told her not to worry about the change . She gave me an awesome booking walked out bow legged .
Another time at Greenlane West can't remember her name . Paid and when she stripped her puss was redder than the tomatoes I buy at woolworths so pretended I hurt my back and left . Wasn't going to risk putting willy wonka in there
 
My view is that SWrs don’t expect a tip. They definitely appreciate it, but just like any business, the required financial investment usually reflects the service they offer. There are exceptions, of course—times when punters walk out feeling dissatisfied, and times when you leave feeling completely satisfied. If I walk out feeling satisfied, I generally see it as receiving a service that was worth more than the price, and I’ll tip because I’m not just out to get the best deal at the lowest price.

I also recognise other circumstances. Some of my favourite girls haven’t increased their prices at all, or not as much as they probably should have over the years. And I recognise that as SWrs, they also like to feel some sense of romance—sure, it might be a business transaction, but appreciating their effort can go a long way.

That’s the long way of saying: I tip every time. That’s my view, and it’s perfectly okay for other punters to feel differently.
 
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