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Fingering - when did that become PSE?

Fingering - when did that become PSE?
HornyAsHell69

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It can't be only me that likes to do a bit of "g spot fishing" with the fingers while I'm DATY or rimming a beautiful lady?
So when did fingering migrate to being part of a PSE?
Surely most of us started with a bit of fishy fingers in the back of the bus?
So can only assume some of you buggers must be bloody rough with your mitts
 
Yes its a shame when some punters ruin an experience and a lady takes something off the services list or hikes up the price.

I also find it odd that sometimes ladies add kissing as an extra for gfe on their profiles. I generally thought it should be included as long as the punter is hygienic and the lady feels comfortable with the guy.
 
I think allot of these “Hookers, Prostitutes Escorts, sex workers” (not bitches as it’s an ugly word, my bad) makes things up as they go. Especially on appearances. If you gonna rock up there looking like a trucky ( no offence to the truckies) with nails that looks like it’s holding enough grease for your next grease change, balls sweat, then I’m sure they not gonna let you put a digital in them. But then on the other hand if you arrive looking like a million dollar man, they gonna want to milk you for all the money and add all the others stuff in as an extra…

@Curb My Enthusiasm @AvaMILF is that better? 😉
 
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Sorry for being a be a bit too pc, I don't think you need to call them bitches (I do get it if you are talking about some bad experiences with some bookings?).

I think my appearances does matter and the way I interact during our bookings. If we want to get the best out if the booking its a mutual interest in both sides to make the most of the time.

Do you try and find a middle ground between those two appearances? I usually rock up to a booking in casual attire, nothing fancy but not scruffy. I havent thought about going in more casual or a bit more formal with some pants and a shirt. I'm there for fun so I want to wear something comfortable but presentable.
 
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Well that is lip kissing and dfk? Sometimes its an extra, sometimes its in general sometimes its in pse.

I think kissing should be a part of most experiences. But fk and dfk is up to the lady how she wants to charge for it or what package it gets included. As long as they are up front what services are included or excluded and how much they are im fine with it.

I would get a bit annoyed they say they offer something and then don't offer it, unless it was my fault e.g they don't click with me. But I will try and not let that dampen my booking.
 
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Last week a member was calling us 'whores', and this week its 'bitches'. Is there any actual moderation on this site at all? :unsure:. If so can we have some clarification please as to what is acceptable and whats not? Thanks. Im not talking about censorship of thought here, just basic respect parameters.

Extras and what is included in each ladies specific service types is entirely up to the individual provider. There is no manual or rule book we all have to follow in this regard. Maybe back in the day service types used to be more standardised, but times have changed. Fingering is one that has always been at the discretion of the lady dependent on different factors, some of which are mentioned above.

It works the other way too as we regularly have clients asking for obvious PSE type activities in a GFE etc. I had one get the shits yesterday because he thought he should be entitled to multi-shots, toys and spanking in a GFE :LOL:. I also had so many requests for KINK type activities within SM bookings, that it led me to introducing a whole new service for me called 'Spicy Sensual Massage'.

Just ask what each lady you wish to see includes in their different services prior to the booking A) To ensure you book the correct service, to avoid disappointment if something you want is not offered, and B) to ensure you have the right amount of cash on you.

💜
 
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Sesame Street Kiss GIF
 
Interaction with an intimate service provider is a variable - the provider has the say on what is provided and their skill and effort mark how.

The punter has the final say on value perception and can vote with their feet, or in the forums.

Be clear on expectations, be open, be up front and issues should be only when one side or other deviates from agreement.

As in life generally, a bit of empathy and respect acts as a effective social lubricant.

Be clean, be tidy, be on time, be clear on expectations and boundaries - bit like a haircut really.

And maybe we all have a better time.

Works for me.
 
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I think in the majority of the profiles the type of kissing services are generally pointed out quite clearly. And they usually state light kissing/fk/dfk for standard/gfe/pse tiers.

I'm happy with the differentiation when everything is up front. Sounds like you are an all or nothing guys when it comes to kissing?
 
That’s why I used to go to agencies. Consistent levels of service and same service provided. No it’s she Does this but she doesn’t. All has to be checked out beforehand. Pain in the ass
 
Idk where you guys are punting and who with but at my regular places, I know some girls that are just a hard no to fingering and some girls that allow it at no extra cost. I've also had girls that allowed it for extra but those are more of the exception.
 
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