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Fingering - when did that become PSE?

Fingering - when did that become PSE?
Hornybutbroke said:
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I mean imagine that, individual ladies with their very own minds and bodies, have their own likes, dislikes, boundaries and ideas about what they do and don't choose to provide, consent to and wish to charge for it! WILD!

Next you'll be saying we get to actually choose who we do and don't see :eek:🤯
 
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It’s a privilege to be able to interact intimately with another human being, notwithstanding the payment aspects. Physical preparation and presentation should be fastidious. WRT finger/hands, my nails are smoothed with an emery board, then scrubbed with a nail brush, hands and fingers are similarly scrubbed - think of a surgeon preparing for an operation.

Shouldn’t be a big deal.

It’s the guys who rock up with poor hygiene, and a sense of entitlement, who really don’t help.
 
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JohnnyPunter said:
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The term “whore” is widely regarded as offensive and stigmatising when referring to sex workers.

Historically, it has been used as a slur to insult or shame women for our sexuality or for participating in sex work. As a result, the word carries strong negative associations and is considered disrespectful in most situations.

Likewise many sex workers and advocates today consider the word 'prostitute' it to be outdated or marginalising. It also tends to focus on the act of selling sex, rather than recognising sex work as legitimate labor or our autonomy.

Good to know (and unsurprising) where you stand on it though.
 
Boobyman said:
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Thanks updating your post. Most of the time the language used is fine, but I think occasionally it does cross the line. Especially when we are talking about other ladies that we often punt and make bookings with.

If they provide us good service then I'm happy to pay for extras or make repeat bookings. Similarly if we have bad experiences then its good to have updates on b&s or where description or services are not accurate, I expect touching up semi accurate age range.
 
JohnnyPunter said:
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I wasn't around in the "old days". So everything that is happening these days is "normal" to me. But it does sound like you guys have had a lot of fun hopefully the fun continues.

Are there any old posts that are worth reading that I may have missed? I only joined SF partway through 2025 and I missed out on all the AF time period.
 
Adrian said:
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Sorry where is the judgement? Not following. Do you mean what I said to JP? Don't worry sweets, he will know exactly what I mean. I have no doubt that not one word that I said will change his mind on anything at all. We have been here many times before. It was less for his benefit and more for others who may actually care how we feel and are open to learning.
 
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Curb My Enthusiasm said:
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Please can someone explain the difference between light kissing, French Kissing and Deep French Kissing. I am confused, especially when it comes to GFE. Remember, in the majority of bookings, you only meet the escort after you have already made the booking with the agency and you arrive at the their premises. Unlike Pelican Club and O Group, where you can chat to the escort quickly, you only really find out that French Kissing is an extra $ 50 when you are in the room with the escort while you are starting to kiss her or while you are on the bed with her. So what is GFE really then? Don't men french kiss their girlfriends, or is it just little pecks on the lips? I really do feel that agencies and escorts must be clearer about this upfront. So, is it better to book a Standard Booking or a Full GFE Booking? It is frustrating, to say the least!
On a side note, I was in a GFE booking with agency escort, where, when I was to going to kiss her nipple, she told me that breast kissing is an extra - can you believe it! That booking was a shocker for so many reasons. I was thinking about you guys here on SexForum while I was in between her legs lol, because her attitude and rules were so bad and shocking. Needless to say, I will rather swim in shark infested waters than see that girl again. Even though I did orgasm during the booking with her, I left the building feeling so disillusioned, unsatisfied and confused.
The thing with bookings is that you can either come out feeling like a victorious King or you can exit with your tail between your legs feeling confused, worthless and having low self-esteem. I have experienced both scenarios. Then are bookings where you feel that it was alright but was it really worth $300 to $350? By the way, is the escort laying on the bed in the 'starfish' position part of a GFE service or Standard service?
Escorts must realize that money does not grow on trees therefore some visible effort is required from them. Of course I do appreciate that escorts are also people with feelings, emotions, desires, aspirations, love and affection - that's what I love about them and being with them. But I need to see these qualities during a booking. Some escorts have made me feel so special that I have returned to them or at least wished to see them again.
Escorts must remember that they indeed have the power to make or break a man's day.
 
AvaMILF said:
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Agreed, the word is usually used in the pejorative.

However, someone you claim to know very well, and whom I saw several times - she is tall and now works in Brisbane - was in the habit of referring to her whore-phone and the whore-archy.

Yes, her profession provides agency for her to do that, but the word is still around.
 
nice guy said:
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I think "that's an extra" culture is also partly about control in the booking. If the vibe is bad, a girl's gonna be scared that some hunk is going to start taking libertiies the more she lets him get away with.

One of my biggest punting rules is "ask for what you want, pay for what you want".
For a long time I was stuck thinking I still needed to not ask for things, in case the girl said "thats an extra".

These days I have a whole long schpiel setting out exactly what I want to do and when and how (and I have a bit more money than I did as a young hivemind).
Often that will trigger a WG to tell me at least one of them is an extra... maybe 2. By and large I find if I'm ordering one biggish extra off the menu they usually throw in a few other things that might otherwise be extras anyway. I think they're keen to get more than the $200 base fee for their time, but not so silly to quote $600 for a booking.

After that they're happy cos (a) they're making a little more bank, (b) they know everything you want to do so they aren't scared youre going to stick your finger up their nose by surprise, and (c) they get to do some of the wacky zany crap they learned in escort school.

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Question : Do hiveminds defecate?
Answer: Yes, the psychic energy we poop out manifests in your dimension as woke leftists. We're really, really sorry.
 
The Ululating Hivemind said:
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So basically, French Kissing is always an extra when you book an agency escort? If you didn't bring extra to the Full GFE booking, then you must be prepared to only peck the escort on her lips? Why call it Girlfriend Experience then, when it is starfish position, no laughter and only little aunty pecks on the lips? That for me is Standard Experience. Anyways, if such are the ways of the escorting world, so be it. Very frustrating indeed, I have to say.
 
May the punting force be with you in future runs so you may experience that king feeling in your next hunt
 
Shandy said:
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I have actually had the king feeling on occasions. Sometimes, an agency escort would make me feel that way. There was this young, very hot and beautiful escort who made me feel so good. The interaction was so easy and happy, like she was really my girlfriend. Did I mention that she was freaking Hot? Alas, she has left the agency, and unfortunately, to my dismay, she did not leave a glass slipper behind. Oh, what I would give, just to see her again. I love that girl! Even though she might not love me, she is a King Maker, most certainly.
There have been other girls who were great with regards to how they made me feel. Some asked me to stay longer, one even danced totally naked for me, one licked my eyes before I left the room, some even complimented me even though I am no Marlon Brando or Tom Cruise, some said I am a good kisser, one even said "you really fucked me good", a couple said I was the only guy to make them cum, one said she wanted to eat my dick lol. So there have been very good moments that I will cherish forever. But, then, that begs the question why do other escorts act and behave like they couldn't care less. I know it depends on the type of person one has booked.
 
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