Love this post.
Some good things to consider.
Had to comment on some, but not to debate or anything. Just general thoughts and a couple of questions in there.
Re tipping.
Is this something SWs expect here in New Zealand or is it like you just consider it a bonus. Is it a "If someone tips, I definitely want them back!" type of thing.
I tend to purchase extras so I think I pay quite a lot of money so wouldn't even think about tipping.
Is this something you girls expect?
If girls here expect tips on top of their fee, I'd feel uncomfortable with booking and probably stop. Tipping sucks! It's the thing I hate most about overseas travel.
As for respect and kindness. Yeah, these things are important. SWs have feelings and shouldn't be abused in anyway. I'm glad those bastards are getting blacklisted.
Man, I worry about the girl being uncomfortable. Always checking, "you comfortable? we can change position if you're not."
Human nature to be more enthusiastic if you find the guy sexy or attractive. It must be so hard to get it on with a guy you find repulsive or who hasn't made any effort when it comes to hygiene. It's always in my mind that maybe the girl finds me repulsive especially if she's way younger than me. So when they give me a great service, I wanna see them again!
I agree that ragging a woman online for her looks is a shitty thing to do unless the photos are completely misleading. These girls have feelings too and it must suck to see that someone thought you were ugly. I've seen a review for an escort on this site... or maybe the other...where a guy said he didn't really like her face. He wasn't mean about it but just said that. I met the same girl and I thought she was beautiful and even told her so and that that reviewer (she'd seen the review) had bad taste . She even admitted it made her feel hurt reading reviews like that.
I see ratings done on girl's attributes rated out of 10. I get that people wanna know this stuff before they buy, but I can't do that. Just seems mean to me. You wouldn't do that to women you knew at work or places like that because that would be a dick move. Besides, it's just one person's opinion.
There's a girl I've seen twice recently. Hate her nipple piercings but the rest of her is amazing. I've commented on her here. I tend to focus on the good things rather than pointing out the things I didn't like. At least when it comes to her physical appearance. Unless they are blatantly misleading ads
mmmm, Probably my only pushback on your points here. That's probably true for many and nobody should be casting stones, no doubts about that. But it's also a bit of a negative stereotype. I'm sure you wouldn't want us to say Sex workers only do this job because they're too dumb to do anything else.
Some of us just love the "no strings attached" stuff, getting with a woman younger than us, without having to work for it. Not saying I'm any prize in the looks department but I'm not desperate. And like someone else implied here, we're paying and we want value for money.
But yeah, I get your point. Gong on about someone not being pretty or sexy enough is a dick move especially when you're not pretty or sexy yourself. That's the sort of bullshit you get at school.
And some are really great ones! I love seeing the girls that make you believe they're actually into you.

Those are the best girls who I'll go back to time and time again. Those are the ones I rave about here even if I don't think they're 10s in other ways.
Hey, come on. Why do women think this is some inalienable right they have? Huh?
So is that what you will think of me if I leave the toilet seat up?
